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What to Do with My Horrendous Childhood Memories?

Check out this counseling answer: • You need to seek professional help, such as counseling, in order to be able to process the feelings that you have towards your father and your mother. • Let him know that you are thankful to Allah for granting you such a husband and that you look forward to …

My Parents Always Fight, What Should I Do?

In this counseling answer: •It could be that your family is emotionally overwhelmed right now and needs a mental health intervention to deal with all the changes and stress that you all have been going through. •Sit down and talk to your mom or your dad, whoever you are closer to. Ask them if it …

Bad Childhood Experiences Still Affect Me

Bad Childhood Experiences Still Affect Me

In this counseling answer: • It seems you masturbate and watch haram movies to escape from your depressed life. Remain firm in your decision to quit this habit, resolute in your quest, and never give up hope. • You must stop every contact with him and think about your future. I know you are not thinking …

Mom Takes Her Frustration Out On Me

Mom Takes Her Frustration Out On Me

In this counseling answer: • Allah tests us all in different ways, where the test is to see how we respond to the trial. • Share the responsibility equally with your siblings and mother. • Let your mother know how her constant anger and anxiety is impacting you, and how it is making you withdraw …

How Shall I Deal with My Aggressive Wife?

How Shall I Deal with My Aggressive Wife?

In this counseling answer: • Before heading straight for a divorce, it is advisable that you take other steps first to try and resolve the issue. • Begin by always taking a calm approach in the knowledge that Allah will reward your patience. • Beyond this, try to first understand things from her perspective …

How to Help My Brother & Sister Have a Good Relationship Again?

How to Help My Brother & Sister Have a Good Relationship Again?

In this counseling answer: • Counseling would be a good place to start in. If she is able, then perhaps you could offer to attend with her to support her if she will allow you. Simply being there for her will give her the support that she needs in overcoming her difficulties. • He may be …

4 Ways to Conquer Anti-Muslim Bullying

In this counseling answer: • You should not keep it inside you and should not feel alone. • Report all bullying to an authority figure. It is the school’s and teacher’s duty to do an investigation and look into the matter. • Show minimal reaction to their bullying. Do not show the bullies that you feel hurt and …

Are You Being Spiritually Abused?

“At least you aren’t being hit,” is a common dismissal heard by people suffering degrees of abuse in various relationships, including marriages, birth families, and even in relationships outside of families. In addition to physical, sexual, mental, financial, and emotional abuse, due to recent high-profile cases we are hearing more about spiritual abuse in Muslim …

Letting Go of the Grudges We Hold in Marriage

Letting Go of the Grudges We Hold in Marriage

In this counseling answer: • The next steps you two should take are researching conflict resolution and marital resentment skills online and engaging with those exercises. • In addition, seeking professional marital support in your area. A third party is always helpful in helping both of you to see the situation more clearly before making …

I Can’t Stand My Abusive Wife Anymore!

I Can’t Stand My Abusive Wife Anymore!

In this counseling answer: • Try not to let your wife’s attitude influence your own attitude towards your children. • You could help her to feel more secure about herself by paying her compliments more often or taking her out. As-Salamu ‘Alaikum brother, I’d like to commend you for reaching out for advice, despite the fact …



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