In this counseling answer: • I would kindly suggest that insha’Allah, you try to look at your situation from a different perspective. You do have a job. You are striving to support her. You are a pious brother. However, she wants a home. Nowhere in the Qur’an does it state that you must buy a home. …

In this counseling answer: •Recognition is the first step to stop getting angry. •The important thing now, is trying to get to know your mom again and work out your feelings of abandonment and pain. •Therapy would address your anger issues as they are most likely stemming from the trauma you experienced as a child, …

 In this counseling answer: •I would advise any parent to be sure their issues, anger, and frustration with one another does not come out through their parenting. •It is never a good idea for a child to be used as a source of pain, bargaining or a weapon between two adults. I do not believe …

In this counseling answer: • The first step you must take is to sincerely turn to Allah and beg Him for His Forgiveness, His Mercy, and His Help in overcoming this huge challenge in your life. • Counseling is most definitely a necessary step to take. • I recommend that you look into books, articles, …

In this counseling answer: •Whether your husband chooses to divorce you or not, he is still responsible for taking care of you during pregnancy and whilst breastfeeding and for the child also. •Make sure to attend all your antenatal appointments where the doctors and midwives will be able to provide further support and even direct …

Is she obliged to tell him about her previous divorce, especially since no consummation of the marriage occurred?

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling video, you will learn: • If your husband said he would divorce you, there is still time Islamically for reconciliation. • Involve any individual your husband looks up to, a third party that could help you have an honest talk about how reconciliation could take place. • Maybe you two …

In this counseling answer: • I encourage you to research more on the matters of having contact with the ex-wife as well as divorce. Contact our Ask the Scholar section. • I personally do not believe a woman needs “to wait” for her husband to divorce her if she has rightful grounds to leave him. • Do …

In this counseling answer: • If your husband is seeking another marriage, it is appropriate for him to discuss this matter and be transparent as his decision will affect your family. • If you do not accept this practice for your own personal reasons, you will need to make a decision as to whether divorcing …

In this counseling answer: • Please, sister, if you feel suicidal at any time, call the local suicidal hotline! • Instead of focusing entirely on pleasing him, focus on pleasing yourself. • Take time each day to remember your blessings, especially in terms of the talents that Allah has bestowed upon you, however small they …