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Is It a Bad Idea to Get Married while in College?

06 June, 2021
Q Salam, I hope you are in good health. I am a shy guy who is interested in marriage for various reasons but I have quite a few problems. Firstly, I am a student, so have one more year at university. I am not quite sure how I can provide for my wife. I am not sure either whether my family will be opened to it. Secondly, as I am shy, I am not sure where to look for a wife. My parents think I am not ready and now I have started to believe I am not ready. Maybe I need to develop myself before I could look after someone else. My plan was to get married when I am 29, but suddenly things have changed causing me to want to get married early. This is always in my head, so it is affecting my mental health. I really want to get married but it’s like Allah telling me it’s not the right time yet. I also suffer from an addiction, so again that’s another reason why I can’t marry. I am not sure what to do. Please help.


As-Salamu ‘Aleikom brother,

Thank you for placing your trust in our ability to propose a solution to your current situation.

In this video, you will learn about:

  • whether Islam supports getting married early, even during college years
  • what to do when your parents think you are not ready for marriage
  • the importance of improving yourself prior to marriage
  • the importance of coming off your addiction and other unhealthy issues before marriage
  • the importance of thinking about your responsibilities as a future husband before marriage



Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the question. In no event shall AboutIslam, its counselors or employees be held liable for any damages that may arise from your decision in the use of our services.

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