As a Medical student I was placed in the Obstetrics and Gynecology department for about 7 weeks. Part of that was spending a week doing night shifts in the Maternity Ward of our teaching hospital. This turned out to be one of the most spiritually enriching times in my life. I have often read the …

In this counseling answer: •You are still young so there is no hurry. Think about it. If after careful consideration and prayer to Allah (swt) you feel you are not ready for marriage, let your family know. •If you feel you are but with conditions that you put off starting a family right away, be …

In this counseling answer: “Evaluate what is right for you as an individual—with the consciousness of Allah (swt) in our decision-making process. Just remember that Allah (swt) is watching you, but not in harshness – in mercy. His mercy is more than His strictness, except in the case of shirk.” As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa …

What should she do?

Does Islam allow us to delay pregnancy by using birth control pills or condoms because of study?

In this counseling answer: •At present, it is most important that you take care of yourself in every way if you are to increase your chances of conceiving. The stress you are experiencing now, alone is enough to have negative consequences on your fertility. •Do all you can to reduce your stress level, reevaluate your …

Labor and birth can be a daunting experience for most women whether it is a first time experience  or even a third baby delivery. While giving birth is a natural process, most women are unaware of their capabilities and level of strength during labor. A doula is a well-trained professional who provides continuous support at …

In this counseling answer: “It may be that you chose to wait a little longer and, therefore, will feel more comfortable to have a child knowing that your studies are complete and you have sufficient funds to raise a child. Being pregnant and giving birth whilst feeling this level of contentment will make the process a …

In this counseling answer: •It may be that he doesn’t want to talk about it because the thought of the pain you might go through and the challenges you might face raising the children makes him scared. •He might believe that he is giving you all the support he can already. In this case, the …

My wife is pregnant. We are Indians and a lot of advice is given by the elders on how to take care of one’s wife during this crucial period.