In this counseling answer: • Outside of accepting that Allah has made polygyny permissible (under strict conditions!), it is not obligatory for any Muslim woman to accept polygamy for herself. •Turn to Allah and seek His help in filling your heart with tranquility and contentment. • Have a sincere, heart-to-heart talk with your husband about …

In this counseling answer: • Since you have known your husband for over 18 years, have you ever seen anything from him that would indicate that he leads a double life? That he lies? • Continue to be open and honest with your husband and let him know how you feel. • If you continue …

Salam Alaikum, In this counseling video, you will learn: • Slow down everything; do not react by your hurt. • As long as there is no trust, a relationship cannot be rekindled • Consider what changes need to be done to gain back the trust in this marriage. • Be honest and let him be …

In this counseling answer: • I understand that it must be a huge emotional and mental burden that your wife is treating you in such negative a manner. However, do try to apologize to her for any wrong-doing on your part and reconcile with her again for the sake of Allah and for the sake …

Polygamy is often seen as the end of a happy marriage, but this is not always true. Take it from me, I’m a happily married first wife and I’m friend with my co-wife, Masha’ Allah; in fact she’s sitting in the same room while I’m typing this polygamy survival guide. Polygamy can work if the …

In this counseling answer: • Islam allows the man to have more than one wifeif onlythe man keeps a balance between the two or more wives and keep them equally well. This is a huge challenge many men, unfortunately, disregard when they think of marrying a second wife. • Look at the situation from an …

In this counseling answer: • The first step you must take is to sincerely turn to Allah and beg Him for His Forgiveness, His Mercy, and His Help in overcoming this huge challenge in your life. • Counseling is most definitely a necessary step to take. • I recommend that you look into books, articles, …

When you find out your husband wants to have another wife or has actually married again, one of the first questions that plagues you is: why? Yes, it is allowed in Islam, but so are many things which have less impact on people’s lives yet are conveniently forgotten – Qiyam ul Lail anyone? So, why …

In this counseling answer: • Islam does not give anyone the right to force you to remain in a marriage against your will, especially if it is with regards to a matter that you know is detrimental to you. • Our relationship with Allah should never be dependent on other people – people can and …

In this counseling answer: • If your husband is seeking another marriage, it is appropriate for him to discuss this matter and be transparent as his decision will affect your family. • If you do not accept this practice for your own personal reasons, you will need to make a decision as to whether divorcing …