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Having Suicidal Thoughts? Symptoms and How to Help

How to Help

If you notice any of these signs or are worried about someone in your life who may be contemplating suicide and/or having ideations, then please know that you can help.

Having someone who to talk to that shows support and concern can go a long way.

If you know someone who is struggling with suicidal thoughts or depression but is not in immediate danger, you can use these tips to help them. 

Active listening

Active listening is a skill: you are listening to understand, not to respond. Do not interrupt them when talking, let them say all they want to say.

Do not try to argue with them, and avoid any type of judgment.

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If you express judgment, they are likely to shut down and stop talking to you.

Even if you disagree with something they said, that is their perception, and arguing with them will not help.

This is not the time to debate or judge; it is the time to listen and allow them a supportive space to vent.

Avoid statements like “things could be worse” or “it isn’t really that bad,” as these minimize their emotions and make them feel like you are invalidating their feelings. 

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Encourage them to seek professional help

They might feel reluctant or shy to seek out help, especially if they come from a family culture that doesn’t understand suicide.

Assure them that what they say to a psychiatrist and/or therapist is confidential and in a safe place.

If you feel comfortable with this, you can offer to drive them to a therapy appointment and sit in the room with them or wait in the lobby. 

Follow-up with them

No matter the outcome of your conversation, follow up with them afterward.

Text them or call the next day to see how they are doing. This will also assure them that you are a source of support and care about their well-being. 

Make dua for them

Make duaa for them and encourage them to express their feelings to Allah (the most honored and revered).

This can be a source of comfort for them, and anything they say to Allah is held between them. Remind them they can get through this and they are never alone.

They can trust in you to be a support, and they can trust in Allah to take care of them. 

rely upon Allah . Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]…” [Quran Aal `Imran 3:159]

Remember, you are not there to solve their problems.

It is not possible for you to resolve everything for them, and that is okay; you don’t need to. You are a support person who can help them seek professional help.  

Final Thoughts

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts and/or ideations, please take these seriously and don’t wait to take action.

An easy and free resource is the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. They are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Be mindful of the risk factors as well as signs of suicidal thoughts.

If you are unsure if someone close to you is struggling with suicidal thoughts, don’t hesitate to speak with them privately and determine how they are feeling.

That conversation may save their lives. 

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The article is from our archives.

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About Monique Hassan
Monique Hassan graduated with honors in 2012 with her BSc in Psychology and a minor in Biology and is certified in Crisis Prevention and Intervention. She has years of professional as well as personal experience with trauma, relationship struggles, substance abuse, identifying coping skills, conflict resolution, community outreach, and overall mental health concerns. She is a professional writer specialized in Islamic Psychology and Behavioral Health. She is also a revert who took her shahada in 2015, Alhamdulillah. You can contact Sister Monique Hassan via her website "MoniqueHassan.com"