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Your mother’s curse may be self-talk; it may be that she heard it as a child too, and this is how she thinks and feels about herself.
She might have her own trauma, so what you can also do is ignore these curses, as they are projections of others mental health states.
Whatever the reason, they should not use verbal abuse to hurt you, either intentionally or not.
Try to find a calm moment, talk to her, and let her know how these words make you feel. Ask what she thinks about what she says.
Know that Allah loves you, and you are worthy of love and life.
Check out the full advice here.
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