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Ex-Husband vs. a Foreigner: Whom to Marry?

Ex-Husband vs. a Foreigner: Whom to Marry?

In this counseling answer: There seem to be many red flags in what you wrote;consider any commitment to this man. Put off any decisions until you’ve done your emotional homework regarding how you feel about each man. Analyze their reactionsto your decision to take this time to reflect. You also stated that he verbally abused …

How Should I Handle My Verbally Abusive Mother? - About Islam

How Should I Handle My Verbally Abusive Mother?

In this counseling answer: •Walk away without saying anything back at all giving her no fuel to argue back with. It will also give you the space to take a breather and not live with any regrets for saying bad words also. •Say something kind to her during the day when she is just going …

Friends Make Fun of Me & My Mother - About Islam

Friends Make Fun of Me & My Mother

In this counseling answer: • I suggest that you ask yourself: do your “friends” possess these qualities? Do they make you feel good about yourself and relaxed? Are they loyal and trustworthy? • I would also like you to make a list of why you have let them verbally abuse you. • Consider taking up …

Thanks to My Parents My Engagement Ended

Thanks to My Parents, My Engagement Ended

In this counseling answer: • Try to forgive yourself, forgive your family and forgive your ex-fiancée for ending the engagement. • While one’s socioeconomic status should not be the only deciding factor in marriage, it is beneficial for you to carefully think about what lifestyle you need to feel comfortable. • As the engagement is …

My Miserable Marriage Makes Me Depressed

My Miserable Marriage Makes Me Depressed

In this counseling answer: • If at any point you begin to consider suicide or hurting yourself, pleasecontact the Pakistan emergency line at 115, The Aman Foundation 24/7 helpline at +92 (21) 111-11-9123 or contact your parents. • It is time to stand up for yourself, sister! • Begin with your morning affirmation and makingduaa. …

How to Deal with My Abusive Brother

How to Deal with My Abusive Brother

In this counseling answer:Your brother’s abusive behavior towards yourself and your parents is completely unacceptable. However, there are a few ways you could make your situation more manageable. Firstly, understanding the situation from his perspective might help you to understand his behavior and find more effective ways to help him. Furthermore, you might consider getting …

A New Muslimah: This Muslim Woman Abuses Me at Work

A New Muslimah: This Muslim Woman Abuses Me at Work

In this counseling answer: “You can try to move on with your life or you could speak to a trusted imam in confidence about what happened to you.You can also seek counseling.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. I am so sorry to hear what you have had to endure due to …

I Think My Mom is Insane

I Think My Mom is Insane

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum brother, It is understandable why you feel depressed by your mom’s behavior. Firstly, her abusive actions towards you will obviously bring you down. Anyone who is treated in this way will have a difficult time being happy, particularly when such actions come from someone you love and respect more than anyone. Additionally, …

Husband Says: “If You’re Not Happy, Leave!”

Husband Says: “If You’re Not Happy, Leave!”

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Aleikom sister, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I am glad you wrote to us. I will try my best to advice you and find a solution to your problems, In sha’ Allah. What you are describing here is not a healthy relationship at all.Every man should respect and show …

Classic Signs of an Abusive Husband

Classic Signs of an Abusive Husband

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaykum dear sister, Thank you for your question. First, let me say that I am very sorry to hear that you have experiencing such pain in your life. You sound like a very giving, caring, kindhearted, and competent lady. It is a shame that your husband is too insecure of a man to …



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