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Husband’s Cheating Online, But Denies It; Please Help!

26 November, 2022
Q I caught my husband cheating on me while being naked with another women on video calls. Can you please help me I don’t know what to do people are telling me to save my marriage life but how can I not give him divorced while his still doing that things the he shouldn’t do I have caught him on video calls naked with another women as his saying I’m lying and his not admitting his making me look like a fault in front of people and I can see that his being doing it still what can I do about this.

Answer

While your hurt and pain are completely understandable, disclosing your husband’s sins to many people may only lead to more gossip, slander, and lies.

Choose one or two close ones you trust to share your struggle. 

Furthermore, try to speak with your husband privately when things are calm. Ask him to be honest with you about his dealings and feelings.

Without sincerity and honesty, it will be difficult to save your marriage, even if your husband admits his sins and makes an effort to change.

Allah hates divorce, so could this be a better option? When?

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About Aisha Mohammad
Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.