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He Died Before Repenting; Will Allah Reunite Us in Paradise?

07 March, 2023
Q Assalamualaikum. I'm a 17-year-old girl. I've been in a haram relationship for 3 years. I loved him immensely and he loved me too. We did many wrong things which I'm guilty of. We committed zina too, astagfirullah. But due to some misunderstandings, we broke up and suddenly, I got to know that he's no more. He died in a bike accident. May Allah grant him Jannah. He never got the chance to repent. I just want to know that will Allah forgive him? What should I do to convince Allah to grant him Jannah? I love him a lot and I don't want to get married anymore. I just want to live the rest of my life, praying for him and asking forgiveness from Allah. Will Allah reunite us in Jannah? I've read in my articles that a married woman will be reunited with her husband in Jannah and not her lovers. So, this is the reason that I don't want to marry anymore. In Sha Allah, when i will go to Jannah, I will meet him.


You have been in a haram relationship, but, alhamdulillah, you have repented of your sin to Allah.

Repentance is a private matter between us and Allah, so maybe he did the same before he passed away.

Focus on this and on healing after your loss before thinking about marriage again.

Only Allah knows what the future has in store for you. Strengthen your connection with Allah, make dua for Him, and trust in His mercy.

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About Aisha Mohammad
Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.