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My Husband Chats with Women on Social Media

26 September, 2023
Q I have noticed that my husband chats with other women in social media appreciating those women looking good, gorgeous, beautiful and writing that he would love to travel with them.

It hurts me a lot. We are not living in same country and my husband was visiting me in July, left quite suddenly back his home country and after that I have noticed this kind of behavior in him.

I am revert, and have been Muslim about 4 years, don’t know so much about my religion yet.


In an Islamic marriage, husband and wife have clear duties and rights, and the goal is to protect the relationship.

None of the spouses are allowed to chat with strangers of the opposite sex about how good they look and where they would like to travel with them.

You are a new Muslim and have the gut feeling that this is wrong, but you lack the knowledge to support your common sense. What can you do?

Seek a local center or an online course and learn about Islam and marriage. Get to know your rights and also your duties, and if possible, bring your spouse too.

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About Aisha Mohammad
Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.