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Is This Real Love or Just Lust?

In this counseling answer: • In psychology, a western scholar stated that a man and a woman could not be “friends” without thinking further ahead of their lives together. This is an innate feeling of men and women. • Marriage is a Sunnah of Prophet Mohammed SAW. However, this certainly does not mean that we need …

How Can I Tell My Parents I’m in Love?

How Can I Tell My Parents I'm in Love?

In this counseling answer: • If you are closer to your father, speak to him, or if you are closer to your mother, speak to her. However, sometimes siblings or aunts can be icebreakers for girls who are kind of shy. • Pray Istikhara (a prayer asking for guidance) first. • If marriage with this …

A Terrified Teenager: I Love a Guy

A Terrified Teenager: I Love a Guy

In this counseling answer: • Keep yourself busy in useful activities. • Always keep Allah in mind in all that you do. • Make sure you don’t end up in a scenario where you might act upon your feelings. Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuh sister, What you have been experiencing is quite normal for …

I’m a Teenager & in Love with a Guy

I'm a Teenager & in Love with a Guy

In this counseling answer: • During the teenage years, physiological and physical changes start happening. Individuals start experiencing feelings for the other gender. However, during this time, it very important to guard thoughts and actions on the basis of reason. • The ‘love’ teenagers feel is called a “crush” – seeing someone and feeling ‘love’ …

I Have a Crush on Two Girls

I Have a Crush on Two Girls

In this counseling answer: • Avoid lone contact with non-mahram females. • If you have a strong desire to fulfill your needs that come with having a spouse, then quite simply you could seek marriage at this point. • You may want to fast regularly to control your desires. • Seek friendships with brothers rather …

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

In this counseling answer: • When you are thinking of marriage, you need to consider the person’s piety above everything else. • You should not even think about proposing to him because he is already in another relationship. • I would also advise you to read and listen to lectures about marriage. • I would …

She Talks to Other Boys; Shall I Marry Her?

She Talks to Other Boys; Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • You are absolutely correct that the best thing to do right now is to make istikhara. • Make sure to seek repentance on your part also if it is that you were in contact with this woman in a haram way, without her mahram present. • During this time, there are …

I Can’t Forget My Non-Muslim Boyfriend

I Can’t Forget My Non-Muslim Boyfriend

In this counseling answer: • He is not a Muslim. Therefore, he is not halal for you to marry. • Should he accept Islam because he truly believes it is the one true religion, then he would be permissible for marriage. • While our parents support, help and blessings are vital in the marriage process, …

I Can’t Stop Committing Zina with a Girl; Please Help!

I Can’t Stop Committing Zina with a Girl; Please Help!

In this counseling answer: • As you can see brother, this is a very powerful connection and that is why (in part) it is strictly confined to the marriage relationship. • Seek repentance from Allah, ask for His forgiveness, and promise yourself you’ll never do it again. • Focus your mind and your thoughts on …

I Like Every Girl I Talk To; Is This Normal?

I Like Every Girl I Talk To; Is This Normal?

In this counseling answer: • What you are feeling may not necessarily be an attraction towards those girls but could even be a self-exploration phase for you. • I would suggest that you stay away from friends who may pressure you or make you feel bad for not having any girlfriends. • If you continue …



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