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She Truly Loves Me, But I Don’t: Shall I Marry Her? - About Islam

She Truly Loves Me, But I Don’t: Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • Instead of putting in the effort to create loving and healthy relationships, we find a need to make it happen “magically” and without any effort. Brother, this is not possible in the real world. • It might help to explore what love actually means to you! Does it mean being …

I Can't Hold Back My Sexual Urges

I Can't Hold Back My Sexual Urges

In this counseling answer: • Continue with all the acts of worship (ibadah). • Continue tolower your gaze, pray regularly, fast often, keep yourself busy with constructive thingsand read Qur’an regularly. • Be in a good company. • Working on your mindset andthink positively. Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh Brother, It is evident that …

Can I Make Dua to Get Married with My Loved One?

Can I Make Dua to Get Married with My Loved One?

In this counseling answer: • You have done the right thing in walking away now before even bigger sins were committed between you. • A way to overcome this would be to introduce a third party when you meet the guy. • If you are sure it’s the right thing to do on the advice …

I’m a Teenager & in Love with a Guy

I'm a Teenager & in Love with a Guy

In this counseling answer: • During the teenage years, physiological and physical changes start happening. Individuals start experiencing feelings for the other gender. However, during this time, it very important to guard thoughts and actions on the basis of reason. • The ‘love’ teenagers feel is called a “crush” – seeing someone and feeling ‘love’ …

daughter talks about Love

Daughter Talks Too Much About Love

In this counseling answer: •I recommend giving an honest assessment of the child’s environment to identify where she may have gotten these messages of love.Influences come from so many places! •I recommend asking your daughter the reasons she hesitates to play with boys. Having modesty is a good thing. •Clear up misconceptions she may have.Askwhat …

I Want to Marry a Woman Older Than Me

I Want to Marry a Woman Who Is Older Than Me

In this counseling answer: • Remember to be gentle with your parents as initially culture will tell them no. • Have a respectful and calm conversation with them utilizing the above-mentioned tips. • Take time before talking with your parents to think about how her family would respond to this and importantly how she would …

I’m in Love with a Non-Muslim Guy; What Shall I Do?

I’m in Love with a Non-Muslim Guy; What Shall I Do?

In this counseling answer: • Please, understand these protective rules of marriage are not isolated to Islam and your family; his own family would most likely not be in favor of this relationship either. • Cut the connection. • Identify your coping skills. • Find true love in worshipping Allah. • Make a vow today …

Due to My Haram Relationship, Family Forces Me to Leave College

Due to My Haram Relationship, Family Forces Me to Leave College

In this counseling answer: • I would kindly suggest that you sit down with your parents and discuss your concerns about having to do your schooling over again. • You could maybe check into other schools to see if there could be a full transfer. • Another option would be to take a break and …

I Don’t Want to Have Feelings for a Non-Muslim Guy!

I Don’t Want to Have Feelings for a Non-Muslim Guy!

In this counseling answer: • Tell yourself that you “have no feelings”, but you are simply impressed that you met a person who is so polite and kind towards you in a time of Islamophobia. • Rationalize and ward off thoughts whenever it crosses the mind.Avert those thoughts to something else. • You need to …

Why Can't I Be Just Friends with the Opposite Gender?

Why Can't I Be Just Friends with Opposite Gender?

In this counseling answer: • This freedom ofallowing boys and girls to mix freely without limitations leads to so much social chaos. • When they experience sexual contact, it feels good. That is natural. But then the girl might get pregnant. What happens then? The boy backs off from the responsibility. • Do not look …



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