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Why Nagging Is One of the Most Common Marriage Killers

Once I was speaking to an elderly lady over the phone. She loved talking and was going on about something or other when suddenly there was an interruption. She was scolding someone, and quite rudely. Then she turned her attention back to me and said, “It’s my husband. He just made the bed and guess …

I Found Messages from Women in My Husband’s Phone

In this counseling answer: • There are things you can do to reignite this spark once more. Do something nice together and talk about old times, reminisce and laugh about things you have done together. • Begin by talking about old times without dragging in present issues regarding his behavior as this will only spoil the …

"And We Created You in Pairs"; How Does This Explain Failed Marriages?

"And We Created You in Pairs"; How Does This Explain Failed Marriages?

In this counseling video, you will learn: • We are responsible for our choices • Do not ignore the red flags • Chemical attraction cannot be the only factor you base your marriage on • Look for common values and believes • Learn from your mistakes • Marriage and divorce are parts of the reality of life …

My Husband and I Got Bored of Each other

My Husband and I Got Bored of Each other

In this counseling answer: • You can kindly but firmly let him know that speaking about another woman hurts your feelings and is not acceptable. • Start practicing sharing positive stories, positive comments, and seeking to discuss beneficial topics. • Invest time and energy in doing things that make you feel great. As-Salamu Alekiom, Thank you for …

I Lost My Faith in Marriage and Happiness

I Lost My Faith in Marriage and Happiness

In this counseling answer: Since your parents have been in an unhappy marriage, you cannot assume that your marriage will be unhappy or violent as well. In fact, it can be quite the opposite! It may lend you the opportunity of escaping from a house where you face misery. While there are sacrifices to be made …

Husband Says at My Age I Should Be Rich

Husband Says at My Age I Should Be Rich

In this counseling answer: ” I kindly encourage you to embrace where you are now in life despite what your husband says and love yourself. I kindly suggest that in sha’ Allah you define what “accomplish” means for you and make a list of the things you would like to accomplish.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing …

Wife Wants a Divorce All of a Sudden; She Feels Worthless

Wife Wants a Divorce All of a Sudden; She Feels Worthless

In this counseling answer: “What needs to be done is that the both of you must come together and honestly talk about your relationship in a safe environment. You both need to be fully willing to listen to each other without judgment. Have empathy towards your wife and seek to understand why she feels worthless in …

I Feel Hurt & Humiliated in My Marriage

In this counseling answer: “As you know, marriage is highly regarded in Islam and we must do all we can to protect it. Seeking counselling with your local imam can help you with this. However, at the same time, sometimes marriages won’t work and it is best for all involved, including the children, that a couple does opt …

Husband Puts Parents Before Me

Husband Puts Parents Before Me

In this counseling answer: “When people say “failed marriage”, it comes with a dose of shame. A failed marriage doesn’t mean that you failed at all which is what a woman who has gone through a divorce or is considering divorce often feels.” As-Salamu ‘ Aleikom, Thank you for your question and reaching out for some …

Dad Likes Another Woman, Mom Wants to Divorce

Dad Likes Another Woman, Mom Wants to Divorce

Salam Aleikom, Thank you for submitting your question. In this video, you will learn: – What can children do with parents’ fights? – How can they help them? – Shall children assist their parent to divorce? – How can you make your marriage work? Salaam, *** Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are …



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