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We Love Each Other, Yet He Wants a Second Wife

We Love Each Other, Yet He Wants a Second Wife

In this counseling service: • I would suggestin sha’ Allahthat you sit down with your husband when things are calm and ask him if he desires a second wife to produce children. • It is also your husband’s obligation to ensureyoufeel cared for, loved, and that your emotional needs are protected and secured within the …

Instead of Working Harder, He Married a Second Wife

Instead of Working Harder, He Married a Second Wife

In this counseling answer: • If he provides for one and not the other, he is violating the rights of that wife and committing a grave injustice.You need to make it clear that you will not tolerate this violation of your rights. • You will need to have a very serious conversation with your husband …

I Need to Have Sex, but I Work Far from My Wife

I Need to Have Sex, but I Work Far from My Wife

In this counseling answer: • Your options are limited as your job keeps you on lengthy sea voyages.Taking a second wife would be hard as you cannot even spend time with your first wife due to your job. Additionally, it would not solve your issue as you are mostly in the sea. • Tips for …

A Second Wife: I Face Homelessness

A Second Wife: I Face Homelessness

In this counseling answer: • Polygamy is allowed only when the man is able to commit to being just between his wives. •I strongly urge you to find an Islamic authority in your region who can officiate afaskhfor you. •If possible, search for a Muslim woman’s shelter in your area. As-salaam ‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa …

Husband Has Three Wives & Some Cyber Sex Partners

Husband Has Three Wives & Some Cyber Sex Partners

In this counseling answer: • He, like many people, knows that what he has been doing is wrong, but doesn’t want to admit it or take responsibility for it because he may fear to appear weak in front of himself or others. • There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling your husband how you feel. …

Shall I Marry a Married Man?

Shall I Marry a Married Man?

In this counseling answer: • I believe that deep in your heart you already know the answer to your question otherwise you would not feel guilty. • You can’t marry someone just because you feel you are out of options. • You need to ask yourself if you really want to start a life with …

Being a Second Wife Upsets My Daughter!

Being a Second Wife Upsets My Daughter!

In this counseling answer: •Please do understand too, that as a young woman now, she is beginning to form her own idea’s and identity, all which may be hurting you as she is angry right now but nonetheless she is entitled to her feelings. Please do insha’Allah validate this for her in order to draw …

Husband Left Me & The Kids for Another Woman

Husband Left Me & The Kids for Another Woman

In this counseling answer: • He has violated your Islamic rights in numerous ways, as well as the rights of your children. • It is better for you and your children to focus on your own well-being. • Seeing a qualified counselor is also very beneficial for yourself. • Show them as much love and …

I Don’t Want to Live in Polygyny; Is It a Sin?

I Don’t Want to Live in Polygyny; Is It a Sin?

In this counseling answer: • Outside of accepting that Allah has made polygyny permissible (under strict conditions!), it is not obligatory for any Muslim woman to accept polygamy for herself. •Turn to Allah and seek His help in filling your heart with tranquility and contentment. • Have a sincere, heart-to-heart talk with your husband about …

“I Am Your Husband’s Second Wife ”

“I Am Your Husband’s Second Wife ”

In this counseling answer: • Since you have known your husband for over 18 years, have you ever seen anything from him that would indicate that he leads a double life? That he lies? • Continue to be open and honest with your husband and let him know how you feel. • If you continue …



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