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I Don’t Want to Live in Polygyny; Is It a Sin?

I Don’t Want to Live in Polygyny; Is It a Sin?

In this counseling answer: • Outside of accepting that Allah has made polygyny permissible (under strict conditions!), it is not obligatory for any Muslim woman to accept polygamy for herself. • Turn to Allah and seek His help in filling your heart with tranquility and contentment. • Have a sincere, heart-to-heart talk with your husband about …

“I Am Your Husband’s Second Wife ”

“I Am Your Husband’s Second Wife ”

In this counseling answer: • Since you have known your husband for over 18 years, have you ever seen anything from him that would indicate that he leads a double life? That he lies? • Continue to be open and honest with your husband and let him know how you feel. • If you continue …

I Just Found Out My Husband Has a Second Wife for 2 Years

I Just Found Out My Husband Has a Second Wife for 2 Years

Salam Alaikum, In this counseling video, you will learn: • Slow down everything; do not react by your hurt. • As long as there is no trust, a relationship cannot be rekindled • Consider what changes need to be done to gain back the trust in this marriage. • Be honest and let him be …

Troubled First Marriage; I Want a Second Wife

Troubled First Marriage; I Want a Second Wife

In this counseling answer: • I understand that it must be a huge emotional and mental burden that your wife is treating you in such negative a manner. However, do try to apologize to her for any wrong-doing on your part and reconcile with her again for the sake of Allah and for the sake …

A Christian Woman: Shall I Be a Muslim’s Second Wife?

A Christian Woman: Shall I Be a Muslim’s Second Wife?

.In this counseling answer: • The only being that you belong to is God alone. • There is no such thing as ‘informal marriage’ vs. ‘formal marriage’. The only form of marriage is the Islamic marital contract, called the nikah. • You should leave this man immediately. But also use this experience as an opportunity to learn more …

Struggling with Polygamy? Check This Polygamy Survival Guide

Struggling with Polygamy? Check This Survival Guide

Polygamy is often seen as the end of a happy marriage, but this is not always true. Take it from me, I’m a happily married first wife and I’m friend with my co-wife, Masha’ Allah; in fact she’s sitting in the same room while I’m typing this polygamy survival guide. Polygamy can work if the …

I Prefer Staying Single Forever Than Sharing My Husband

I Prefer Staying Single Forever Than Sharing My Husband

In this counseling answer: • Islam allows the man to have more than one wife if only the man keeps a balance between the two or more wives and keep them equally well. This is a huge challenge many men, unfortunately, disregard when they think of marrying a second wife. • Look at the situation from an …

She Forced Me to Marry Her as My Second Wife

She Forced Me to Marry Her as My Second Wife

In this counseling answer: • The first step you must take is to sincerely turn to Allah and beg Him for His Forgiveness, His Mercy, and His Help in overcoming this huge challenge in your life. • Counseling is most definitely a necessary step to take. • I recommend that you look into books, articles, …

Husband Forces Me to Accept Polygamy

Husband Forces Me to Accept Polygamy

In this counseling answer: • Islam does not give anyone the right to force you to remain in a marriage against your will, especially if it is with regards to a matter that you know is detrimental to you. • Our relationship with Allah should never be dependent on other people – people can and …

Husband Wants to Keep His Second Marriage in Secret: I Feel Angry

Husband Wants to Keep His Second Marriage in Secret: I Feel Angry

In this counseling answer: • Islam prohibits secret marriages. • Lying is also prohibited in Islam. •Have a serious discussion with your husband. If he insists on getting you to lie for him, then be upfront: that you will not do so, as lying is prohibited in Islam, to begin with. It is absolutely his …



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