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3 Ways to Survive Critiques and Criticisms

3 Ways to Survive Critiques and Criticisms

Criticism for new Muslims is usually two-fold. Not only do new Muslims have to endure criticism from non-Muslim friends and family members, but they often have to endure it from their own brethren in faith who often point out their flaws and shortcomings.

Too Concerned About People's View of Me.. Any Solution?

Too Concerned About People's View of Me.. Any Solution?

I am always concerned about how people see me, how can I change that? In the world we’re living in today, we can find a lot of people who always depend on what the people around them think. Their main focus is how the public sees them. Their main focus is how the people around …

My Husband’s Bad Habit of Criticism

My Husband's Bad Habit of Criticism

In this counseling answer: • The key is to practice changing criticisms into subjective complaints. Use gentle “I statement” that relay your complaint without making your partner feel attacked and in turn defensive. •Notice generalizations like “always” and “never” aren’t used, and the expression is subjective which is less likely to feel like an attack. …

I'm Tired of People's Constant Criticism

I'm Tired of People's Constant Criticism

In this counseling answer: • Those peoplewho always criticize others and do not appreciate other people tend to not be happy with themselves. In actuality, it is not youwhom they don’t appreciate orwhom they’re critical of; it is themselves. • Start a journal. Make a list of the peoplewho criticize you. Do you have strong …

How to Deal with a Constantly Criticizing Husband

How to Deal with a Constantly Criticizing Husband

In this counseling answer: • One thing for certain is that when he criticizes you for silly things, you can know that he is not really angry with you about those things. • Take some time out for yourself. Get connected with your friends and family who will support you and provide that emotional nurturing …

How Prophet Muhammad Handled Criticism

How Prophet Muhammad Handled Criticism

Criticism can be tough to deal with for even the most humble of people, particularly if it is unfair or lacking in tact. Like a knife, it often causes deep, festering wounds and divides the closest of friends.

Abusive Father & Critical Husband: I’m Depressed

Abusive Father & Critical Husband: I’m Depressed

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Aleikum, Thank you for reaching out to us with your problem. We’ll try our best to help you, in sha’ Allah. First and foremost, children need a safe and secure home free of violence, and parents who love and protect them. From what you have described, it sounds like you have had a …

How to Deal with My Disrespectful Wife?

How to Deal with My Disrespectful Wife?

Answer: Salam ‘Alaikum, From the situations you have described, it sounds as if your wife is having trouble communicating her needs to you in a constructive way, and has resorted to expressing herself in anger, resentment, or inappropriate outbursts. Of course, this is not an appropriate way to communicate with a spouse or loved one …



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