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Husband Threw Me & My Daughter Out of His Home - About Islam

Husband Threw Me & My Daughter Out of His Home

In this counseling answer: • You cannot save a marriage with a person who has physically and emotionally abused you and also turned a blind eye to the sexual, physical, and emotional abuse of his own brother against you. • You have a daughter now which means it is your duty to do everything in …

I’m Afraid to Leave My Husband; He Might Kill Us - About Islam

I’m Afraid to Leave My Husband; He Might Kill Us

In this counseling answer: • Safety always comes first. • A man needs to feel respected. He needs to feel his woman looks up to him.The loss of that is emotionally debilitating. Consider ways you can genuinely show appreciation for him. • One thing that could help you both is sitting down to discuss your …

My Husband Doesn’t Hear Me

My Husband Doesn’t Hear Me

Salam Alaikum, In this counseling video: Seek intervention and help. Speak to your family about what is going on in your life. Invite your husband to seek help for his behavior. If not, you have the decision to sek a divorce. You need to stand up for yourself and rights. It is not your fault. …

Classic Signs of an Abusive Husband

Classic Signs of an Abusive Husband!

Short Answer:No one should ever change themselves in order to please a spouse. When you marry someone, you don’t marry an idea of them – you take that person as they are. If your husband won’t speak to a therapist or a sheikh/imam/scholar, then you need to make a decision. Are you okay with living …

My Husband Has Turned So Nasty Towards Me

My Husband Has Turned So Nasty Towards Me

Salam Alaikum, In this counselingvideo, you will learn: Try marriage counseling, or sit down with family members from both sides to reconcile. Remember, your reward is with Allah. No matter what people say about you; Allah is the Most Just. Do things that you enjoy; take care of yourself. Disclaimer:The conceptualization and recommendations stated in …

A Second Wife: I Face Homelessness

A Second Wife: I Face Homelessness

In this counseling answer: • Polygamy is allowed only when the man is able to commit to being just between his wives. •I strongly urge you to find an Islamic authority in your region who can officiate afaskhfor you. •If possible, search for a Muslim woman’s shelter in your area. As-salaam ‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa …

Husband Neither Fixes Our Marriage nor Divorces Me

Husband Neither Fixes Our Marriage nor Divorces Me

In this counseling answer: • Marriage was created to be a relationship of mercy, love, safety, and comfort. It is not a place for abuse and neglect. • It is time that your husband told the truth about his life and his intentions with you, his wife. • Consult with a lawyer as well as …

Divorced after a Breakdown

Divorced After a Breakdown

As-Salamu Alaikum, In this counseling answer, you will learn: • Marriage needs to be based on trust and respect. • Talk to your imam, even over the phone, to ask about your rights as a wife. • Use your common sense first before asking about your rights. Ask yourself: is kindness toward the wife is …

Why is Muharram so Significant?

Husband Wants Me to Humiliate Myself

In this counseling answer: • Seek out personal counseling whether you stay with him or not. • If you decide to stay, then make marriage counseling a prerequisite for this and hold him accountable. • If you decide to leave then bear in mind the 7 tips above for healing as you go through this …

My Husband Refuses to Live with Me!

My Husband Refuses to Live with Me!

In this counseling answer: • Speak with your husband to determine if he wants to heal the marriage. • If he does, seek out counseling or a mediator. Practice non-confrontational communication and show support for his emotions. • Communicate honestly with him about your feelings and desires. • Seek out an Imam and make time …



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