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A Second Wife: I Face Homelessness

A Second Wife: I Face Homelessness

In this counseling answer: • Polygamy is allowed only when the man is able to commit to being just between his wives. •I strongly urge you to find an Islamic authority in your region who can officiate afaskhfor you. •If possible, search for a Muslim woman’s shelter in your area. As-salaam ‘alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa …

Husband Neither Fixes Our Marriage nor Divorces Me

Husband Neither Fixes Our Marriage nor Divorces Me

In this counseling answer: • Marriage was created to be a relationship of mercy, love, safety, and comfort. It is not a place for abuse and neglect. • It is time that your husband told the truth about his life and his intentions with you, his wife. • Consult with a lawyer as well as …

Divorced after a Breakdown

Divorced After a Breakdown

As-Salamu Alaikum, In this counseling answer, you will learn: • Marriage needs to be based on trust and respect. • Talk to your imam, even over the phone, to ask about your rights as a wife. • Use your common sense first before asking about your rights. Ask yourself: is kindness toward the wife is …

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Husband Wants Me to Humiliate Myself

In this counseling answer: • Seek out personal counseling whether you stay with him or not. • If you decide to stay, then make marriage counseling a prerequisite for this and hold him accountable. • If you decide to leave then bear in mind the 7 tips above for healing as you go through this …

My Husband Refuses to Live with Me!

My Husband Refuses to Live with Me!

In this counseling answer: • Speak with your husband to determine if he wants to heal the marriage. • If he does, seek out counseling or a mediator. Practice non-confrontational communication and show support for his emotions. • Communicate honestly with him about your feelings and desires. • Seek out an Imam and make time …

Husband Left Us; I’m Tired of Struggling Alone

Husband Left Us; I’m Tired of Struggling Alone

In this counseling answer: • These tests and trials you are going through will make you stronger, sister. Remember that Allah does not burden us more than we can bear. • Under most circumstances, I would advise that you try tosave the marriage, but in this instance, I advise you to seek a divorce. • …

You are in a very disturbing situation where it seems like you are faced with what appears to be verbal abuse from many angles. Not only is your husband verbally abusing and humiliating you, but his family appears to also be doing the same. Despite all this, you still love him, and this makes it difficult for you to decide what to do next.

Husband Wants to Divorce Me, but I Still Love Him

You are in a very disturbing situation where it seems like you are faced with what appears to be verbal abuse from many angles. Not only is your husband verbally abusing and humiliating you, but his family appears to also be doing the same. Despite all this, you still love him, and this makes it difficult for you to decide what to do next.

Husband is a Drug Addict; I Don’t Love Him Anymore

Husband is a Drug Addict; I Don’t Love Him Anymore

In this counseling answer: • It is important that you take your family into confidence about what you are going through. • I would advise you to stop fearing the worst and become assertive with your husband about your relationship with him.Tell him that you are absolutely not ready to live this way and keep …

How to Move on After an Abusive Marriage

How to Move on After an Abusive Marriage

In this counseling answer: • I want to encourage you to think about how many allies you can have in your corner to help you moving forward. •Make lots of dua to Allah. •Do not speak to, text, or engage with your ex-husband in any manner.Leave this to your father or another man who can …

Husband Refuses to Give Me Even a Penny

Husband Refuses to Give Me Even a Penny

In this counseling answer: • A woman’s money is her own and he has no right to it at all. On the contrary, all the money he earns you and your children have a right to as the entire point for a man to have a job is first to care for his family. •Whatever …



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