Reverts Share Tips on Growing Spiritually

Too often we go through life oblivious to all the good surrounding us. This is because we’re overwhelmed with a materialistic life that hardens hearts. For reverts, this is no different.

So what can reverts do to get close to Allah and keep their spirit alive?

What are the acts of worship they can resort to in times of difficulty?

And where do they find the inspiration and strength to be good Muslims?

There is no right or wrong way to approach spirituality. As long as you are not deviating from the Prophet’s example and are sincere in your actions, you are fine. What’s important is to recognize that at the end of the journey awaits a prize.

Whether you are a revert or a born Muslim who’s working on furthering your spiritual growth, there are important lessons that can be learned along the path you follow.

Baby Steps Will Help

Speaking to a few of my revert friends, I was able to form an idea of how they build their spirituality.

Some friends work on identifying a blessing that came to them from a family member, a friend or a colleague. They make their week’s mission and search each day for a different blessing.

Worship will help get you through the roughest of times because it shifts your focus from the problem to the problem solver.

Increase the amount of time you spend in prayer by joining in prayer with others. Let your friends know you are always available for prayer and regularly attend prayers at mosques. Make a conscious decision to pray in a congregation at least once a day. This is for both men and women.

Prayer is the key that unlocks the door. Give Allah some one-on-one time. Have faith in what you are praying about, and believe it will happen. Pray for your family, other Muslims in your community and for the world’s well-being.

Join Forces

“Talking with someone who has been down the same road can provide insight into your situation. They can help you rebuild your faith by offering practical advice”, Rosie, a revert friend suggested.

Take care though; having a lot of musts simultaneously can end up being a house of cards. You can layer commitment on commitment and it is fine. Until you break one of the commitments and you start to crumble. Too many things to do, and soon you stop doing all of them.

How can we guarantee that our practices continue?

Reverts Getting Closer to Allah

One way to ensure our spirituality continues to grow is to, “hook up with another revert or a born Muslim who is seeking to grow spiritually”, Salma, another revert friend advised. She added that meeting once a week for a period of time to study and reflect on spiritual matters has greatly helped her.

Take advantage of social media and form a group to remind each other of daily habits. I personally have formed one on Whatsapp where we remind each other of making istighfar or repentance, praising Allah and reading a few verses of the Quran.

No matter how hectic our schedules, we always log on simply to confirm that we accomplished our set tasks. If we keep it up, I guarantee a lot of spiritual growth is bound to take place for all of us.

Keep in mind that we can grow at a faster rate when we are able to share our experiences with one another and hold each other accountable. We learn the most when we teach it to others.

Seeing others grasp the truth for the first time gives it a fresh impact on our lives as well. It reminds us of the beauty and the blessing of finding Islam.

Familiarize Yourself

To have faith, we have to make ourselves familiar with the word of Allah in the Quran and familiarize ourselves with the Prophet Muhammad, (peace and blessings upon him) and his life.

Salma added, “I have personally found in my life, that when I neglect reading the Quran and praying to Allah, my faith fades. Conversely, when I focus more on listening to Allah’s orders and praying to him, my faith is strengthened. I feel this is a critical area of our spiritual life.”

Practically, using a Quran reading chart that takes us through the Quran as much as possible can be very helpful.

But there are many other good structured ways of practicing Islam. Many Muslims, born and reverted alike, sometimes feel they have reached a barren spiritual dryness and they walk around carrying the crushing guilt of failure.

By making time to heal a wounded heart, extending kindness to someone who really needs a friend, or helping gather up pieces of a broken dream, we are practicing Islam, even if it appears there is no real worship. Do whatever you can to radiate love for your brother or sister in Islam.

Remain Committed

Please know that all of us, whether born Muslim or reverts, will develop some of these habits to various degrees depending on our maturity, knowledge, and commitment. Moreover, realize that none of us will have all of these habits perfectly developed.

The key is to apply the minimal habit principle. Here, habits can be made easier to sustain, so that in a pinch, we can default to a lower-effort input and not break our commitment.

About Deana Nassar
Deana Nassar is a published writer. As a mother of four, in her home she’s the sole expert on all things related to marriage, children’s psychology, motherhood and creative survival.
She loves charity work, reading and writing poetry, and is mostly known for writing articles discussing family and social issues, faith, freedom, and purpose that comes through God. She can be reached at [email protected]