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He Is Always on His Sister’s Side; I Regret Marrying Him

18 June, 2023
Q Hello , I married the person I loved everything was totally fine, however his unmarried sister always interferes with our relationship and life matters, not only that but she also disrespected me so many times in different ways but when I discuss the issue with my husband he always defend her and treats me like I’m a liar. Now I feel like it’s changing our relationship dynamics and I am starting to withdraw feelings, I'm starting to hate him…. If i haven’t had my baby girl I would file a divorce. My question is how to fix the dynamics? And how to know if it’s time to separate?

Answer

His sister might be jealous of you, especially if she has a close relationship with your husband.

She might struggle with issues about expressing love and accepting others’ happiness in the family.

How to change the dynamics? Building bonds and keeping a kind attitude is one of the possible ways. How?

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About Aisha Mohammad
Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.