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As-salamu `alaykum, dear sister.
It is hard for parents to get out of the habit of shouting, so you should not worry too much if you find yourself shouting from time to time. However, it is important to realize that shouting isn’t a very effective way of getting children to comply, and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) warned us against the dangers of anger.
As your daughter is a sensitive child, it will probably be more effective if you try to lower your voice and choose one or two issues at a time that you feel very strongly about. Anything else can be mentioned, but not pressed upon.
It is normal for a young girl to copy her friends and this is fine as long as it is within Islamic boundaries. Parents always need to be watchful about dress, speech, and habits. Controlling anything children watch on TV is one of the quickest ways to rule out discipline problems. Parents have to be extremely selective, if they let their children watch at all, and it is probably better to limit viewing to local Muslim channels and Islamic videos.
While children are brought up in a different environment, they need to be given the tools to interact within that culture, and this means the home culture has to be especially strong, and support available from Islamic schools or, preferably, fulltime Islamic education.
Children need plenty of opportunities to meet friends regularly, and if families become involved with local Muslim activities, they will, in sha’ Allah, find like-minded people to socialize with. Information should be available at local mosques or on the Internet for listings of major Islamic organizations in Canada and their activities in the various regions. If there is nothing available in your area, local Muslim families could get together through the men meeting on Fridays, and arrange activities for themselves.
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