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- The word Islam is derived from the word istislam, which means โsurrender,โ that is, surrender to Godโs laws.
- If all people have to work to live, have to marry to have social life, and have to study to get higher posts and to be knowledgeable, Muslims can do all these things and have thawab (reward) by having the intention to please Allah by these actions.
- Thus all Muslimsโ lives are for achieving this end resultโto worship God, which includes studying, working, marrying, having children, interacting with others, and so on.
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Salam Dear Shazia,
Thank you for your question and for contacting Ask About Islam.
Islamโs effect on our lives is a very wide issue; we will try to highlight how Islam affects, directs, and forms our lives.
The word Islam is derived from word istislam, which means โsurrender,โ that is, surrender to Godโs laws. The word is also derived from the word salam, โpeace,โ for if we follow Godโs laws we will achieve peaceโbe it peace of soul, peace of mind, peace between nations, peace between people, and so on.
Islam a Religion of Nature
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) did not leave anything bad that he did not forbid us from, and likely he did not leave anything good that he did not order us to perform. I will present some hadiths that show that Islam is a call for purity and peace and it does not contradict with oneโs own nature.
By nature Man is not to hurt others but to be kind to others; otherwise hatred will prevail and life will be distorted. We find Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) directs us to this behavior.
Abu Musa Al-Ash`ari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: I asked Allahโs Messenger (peace be upon him) which [believer] in Islam is more excellent. Upon this he remarked, โOne from whose tongue and hand Muslims are safeโ (Muslim).
Good Deeds
There are many hadiths of the Prophet that call on the Muslims to perform charity and to be good and kind to the poor and to everyone, and we find this concern for the poor to be innate in Muslimsโ hearts and souls. One of these hadiths is this:
โThere is a (compulsory) sadaqah (charity) to be given for every joint of the human body (as a sign of gratitude to Allah) everyday the sun rises.
To judge justly between two persons is regarded as sadaqah; and to help a man concerning his riding animal, by helping him to mount it or by lifting his luggage on to it, is also regarded as sadaqah; and (saying) a good word is also sadaqah; and every step taken on oneโs way to offer the compulsory prayer (in the mosque) is also sadaqah; and to remove a harmful thing from the way is also sadaqahโ (Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
Abu Musa reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said:
โGiving charity is obligatory upon each Muslim.โ It was asked, โWhat do you say of him who does not find (the means) to do so?โ He said, โLet him do manual work, thus doing benefit to himself and give charity.โ It was asked, โWhat about one who does not have (the means) to do so?โ He said, โThen let him assist the needy, the aggrieved.โ
It was asked, โWhat do you say of one who cannot even do this?โ He said, โThen he should enjoin what is reputable or what is good.โ He was asked, โWhat if he cannot do that?โ He (the Prophet) said, โHe should then abstain from evil, for verily that is charity on his behalfโ (Muslim).
Another hadith, narrated by `Abdullah ibn `Amr (may Allah be pleased with him), shows the importance of having compassion for poor people.
When the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked which merit is superior in Islam, he replied, โThat you provide food and extend greetings to one whom you know and whom you do not knowโ (Muslim).
Following Godโs Rules and Prophetโs Teachings
Allah says in the Quran what means:
{Say: โIf ye do love Allah, follow me: Allah will love you and forgive you your sins; for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.โ Say: โObey Allah and His Messenger,โ but if they turn back, Allah loveth not those who reject faith} (Aal-Imran 3:31-32).
Islam draws a framework for Muslims, whereby all can act freely as long as they are within this framework; if they go astray, they will have to repent and go back to Islamโs true path or else they will get punished. Letโs ask ourselves why God has created us. The reply comes from the Quran when it says what means:
{I have only created jinns and men, that they may serve Me} (Quran 51:56).
Thus all Muslimsโ lives are for achieving this end resultโto worship God, which includes studying, working, marrying, having children, interacting with others, and so on.
Muslims have to study hard, as they are ordered to increase their knowledge. The Quran says what means:
{โฆO my Lord! advance me in knowledge} (Quran 20:114).
Muslims also have to work hard and not cheat. The Quran says what means:
{Allah doth command you to render back your Trusts to those to whom they are dueโฆ} (An-Nisaa 4:58).
While choosing a wife, a Muslim is directed to choose a woman for her piety and not to choose her for wealth or ancestry. In raising children, Muslims are ordered to teach them part of Quran and to do good for them.
In interacting with others, Muslims are directed to be fair, not to cheat, and to be kind and forgiving.
Right intention gives reward even for daily chores
If all people have to work to live, have to marry to have social life, and have to study to get higher posts and to be knowledgeable, Muslims can do all these things and have thawab (reward) by having the intention to please Allah by these actions.
Umar ibn Al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
โ[The value of] an action depends on the intention behind it. A man will be rewarded only for what he intended. The emigration of one who emigrates for the sake of Allah and His Messenger is for the sake of Allah and His Messenger; and the emigration of one who emigrates for gaining a worldly advantage or for marrying a woman is for what he has emigratedโ (Muslim).
If we let ourselves to our instincts, chaos will take place; we will find all kinds of offenses taking place between human beings; all will strive to achieve their welfare regardless of hurting or wronging others.
Thus, we find atheist communities tailor earthly rules to preserve peace and make regulations to judge between people. God has given us these rules summed up in Islam: it is not only a book to read or rituals to perform, but answers to all your questions, a religion of life.
I hope this helps to show how Islam forms our lives and how all our actions emerge from the teachings of Islam.
And Allah knows best.
I hope this helps.
Salam and please keep in touch.
(From Ask About Islam archives)
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