The Crisis of Modern Life
In today’s world, many of us are too busy. The demands of work, education, and social obligations seem endless.
However, this modern lifestyle can come at a cost. As we pursue career success or personal goals, we often neglect our parents.
But what do we truly gain if we lose the connection with the people who raised us?
Key Issues That Lead to Disconnect
1– Over-reliance on technology: We text instead of calling or visiting.
2- Work and career pressures: We prioritise promotions over family time.
3- Social distractions: Friends and hobbies take up the free time we have to spend with our parents.
It’s important to recognise this trend before it’s too late. When our parents are no longer with us, we may regret the time we didn’t spend with them.
How to Reconnect With Our Parents
We can reverse this disconnect by making small, intentional changes in our daily lives. Here are some few practical steps:
1. Call or visit regularly; Even a five-minute conversation can strengthen your bond.
2. Prioritise family time; Schedule sometime each week to spend with your parents. Be present with them.
3. Seek their advice; Involving your parents in decision-making shows respect and makes them feel valued.
4. Make dua for them; The Qur’an teaches us to pray for our parents:
My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up when I was small.”
(Surah Al-Isra 17:24)
5. Take on caregiving roles if needed; If your parents are elderly or in poor health, assist them in their daily needs, remembering the rewards of this service.
The Rewards of Honouring Our Parents
Caring for our parents is one of the most rewarding acts in Islam. It is not just about fulfilling a duty; it’s about living up to the values that Allah has commanded us to follow.
By reconnecting with our parents and honouring them, we earn Allah’s pleasure and blessings in both this life and the hereafter. Remember the words of the Quran:
”Do not worship any but Him; Be good to your parents; and should both or any one of them attain old age with you, do not rebuke them, but speak to them with respect ”.
(Surah Al-Isra 17:23)
InshAllah, let us make an effort to reconnect, honour, and care for our parents, fulfilling the divine command that brings us closer to Allah.
