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You have suffered lifelong abuse by your closest ones, yet you still expect their love and support.
Maybe they are not the right ones to help you, as they may not know how to provide you with emotional and mental safety and protection.
You do not need their approval or acceptance to embark on your healing journey. You are strong enough to overcome it and heal your wounds.
Leaving a toxic home is not running away.
Those who advised this may have been aware of the negative consequences of not removing yourself from a place like that.
Sometimes this is the best and wisest thing to do.
What else can help? Check out the counselor’s answer here.
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