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Loneliness and Depression Are Killing Me

Loneliness and Depression Are Killing Me

In this counseling answer: • Interacting with other sisters in this way might also assist you in feeling less lonely. • Talk to Allah about your loneliness. Salam ‘Alaikom dear sister, One of the key symptoms of loneliness commonly cited in the psychological literature is the experience of depression, so it is understandable that you …

After Engagement, Fiancé Talks to Another Woman

After Engagement, Fiancé Talks to Another Woman

In this counseling answer: • You need to decide if his other relationship is a deal-breaker. If you believe that it is, then you have to communicate that to him and stay committed to yourself. • You must learn to love and value yourself before anyone else does. Appreciate yourself, build your self-esteem, and be grateful …

Fear of Marriage: I Am Not Good Enough for Anyone

Fear of Marriage: I Am Not Good Enough for Anyone

In this counseling answer: • You may need to address your past abuse of being bullied. • Return to your counselor and discuss with him the fact that you still feel very much depressed and continue to suffer from low self-esteem. • Widen your Islamic social circle in order to meet a variety of Muslims. …

I'm Jobless, but Need to Get Married

I'm Jobless, but I Need to Get Married

In this counseling answer:  • You do not need to hold off getting married until you have a job if this could potentially cause you to sin. • I recommend you fast. This can help you to overcome such urges that you have been experiencing. As-Salamu ‘Alaikum brother, Alhamdulillah, it is a good sign of piety that you …

I Prefer Staying Single Forever Than Sharing My Husband

I Prefer Staying Single Forever Than Sharing My Husband

In this counseling answer: • Islam allows the man to have more than one wife if only the man keeps a balance between the two or more wives and keep them equally well. This is a huge challenge many men, unfortunately, disregard when they think of marrying a second wife. • Look at the situation from an …

She Has a Sinful Past; Shall I Marry Her?

She Has a Sinful Past; Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • Only marry her if you truly recognize that her past is no better than yours. • You need to get your relationship right with Allah (swt) and start keeping your daily prayers. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum dear brother, It seems you are in a dilemma. First, you were friends with this girl, …

I’m Stuck in a Cycle of Depression & Anxiety

I’m Stuck in a Cycle of Depression & Anxiety

In this counseling answer: • Once you resolve your mental health/sleeping issues, you can move in the direction of deciding if she is one who you will marry. • If you have depression and anxiety, there are biochemical and neurological changes that may have taken place which need to be corrected. • Whatever it is …

I Like a Non-Practicing Muslim: Shall I Marry Her?

I Like a Non-Practicing Muslim: Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • What are the qualities that you love about her? List them on a piece of paper. • Clearly talk to her and show your interest (while involving your and her parents). • Inshallah, you will be able to help her practice the religion in a more efficient way. Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam, Your …

He Hugs His Female Friends; Shall I Marry Him?

He Hugs His Female Friends; Shall I Marry Him?

In this counseling answer: • Set aside time to speak with him about these issues, but don’t approach the topics in a demanding or blaming way. • Consider pre-marital counseling. • Ultimately, if he refuses to compromise on these issues, then this is a red flag for you concerning the future. • Pray istikhara and don’t be …

I Have Low Self-Esteem: How Will I Marry?

In this counseling answer: • Stop criticizing yourself! • Verbalize your fears and expect them to understand your problems. • I would suggest maintaining a journal in which you highlight the positive aspects of your personality. • Don’t be afraid of being judged. • I feel it is essential that you explore what the roots …



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