Salam Dear Brother, Thank you for your question and for contacting Ask About Islam. It reflects genuine human concerns, rather than asking about Islam. We, as Muslims share your concerns too! Let me start by saying that civility is a human virtue and is universal, though it can take different forms, according to culture. No …
There are many people who love virtue. They love to pardon those who have wronged them. They love acquiring religious knowledge, exhibiting good manners, and behaving ethically. It is the way they are, even without formulating any conscious, deliberate intention to be that way.
Calm enhances one’s good qualities and makes one’s bad qualities seem less serious. Even a wrongdoer, if he maintains his composure and good manners, is more likely to be excused for his wrongdoing.