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Abuse, Sex, Boyfriends: I Want to Purify Myself

Abuse, Sex, Boyfriends: I Want to Purify Myself

In this counseling answer: • Find a counselor/mental health professional in your area and start a therapy. • Take time to appreciate yourself and value yourself withoutseeking outa boyfriend. What are your goals in life? Do you want to go to college? Do you want to work/volunteer? What makes you happy? •Appreciate and love yourself. …

I’m Having a Crush on My Atheist Colleague

I'm Having a Crush on My Atheist Colleague

In this counseling answer: • The first and effective step to overcoming someone is not seeing, hearing, or reading about the person. • Be strong and seek refuge with Allah. If you can’t avoid this boy because he is a co-worker, maybe change your schedule if you can’t deal with him and it would make …

I Love Him, but Can't Reveal My Past

I Love Him, but Can't Reveal My Past

In this counseling answer: • We suggest strongly that you not uncover what Allah (swt) has already chosen to cover for you. • Your repentance should continue so that you do not become complacent. Salamu`Alaikum, Thank you for writing to us. Here are some thoughts for your consideration. First, all praise is due to Allah …

I Can’t Stop Thinking about Boys

I Can’t Stop Thinking about Boys

In this counseling answer: • Instead of thinking about boys, focus on your present life, needs, and goals. •Join a single sisters’ group or enroll in marriage seminars at your mosque. •Keep your five daily prayers. Makedu’aa’, dodhzkir, read Qur’an, and reflect upon the beauty and magnificence of mercy and forgiveness. As Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, …

I Can’t Live with the Shame of My Past

I Can’t Live with the Shame of My Past

In this counseling answer: • Instead of blaming the girl for getting you used to a physical relationship, you need to understand that it was your shortcoming in this aspect. • If you do not repeat these sins and continue to seek forgiveness, He (swt) will surely forgive you and help you in your journey …

I Feel Guilty for Having Romantic Fantasies

I Feel Guilty for Having Romantic Fantasies

In this counseling answer: • The fantasies that you are describing dear sister are common and normal fantasies that emerge as one begins to grow and develop into a young adult. • Try to fill that time instead with other activities, such as studying, going for a walk, engaging in a hobby or an Islamic …

He Used Me, Then Dumped Me - About Islam

He Used Me, Then Dumped Me

In this counseling answer: • To be clear, Allah does not care what you did in the past. He only cares that you realized your sin and overcame it by ending the sin and asking for forgiveness. • I would suggest that you focus on yourself and your goals from this point forward. • I …

How to Handle the Pain of Unrequited Love

How to Handle the Pain of Unrequited Love

In this counseling answer: • I ask that you write in your journal daily, noting your feelings, thoughts, and wishes. • I also want you toinsha’ Allahmakes a list of all your positive traits, qualities, and aspirations. • I want you to make another list of your blessings. Read them daily. • I highly recommend …

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10 Tips on How to Quit Haram Relationships

Being in a haram (disallowed) relationship is a very common problem that challenges Muslim youths nowadays. It’s very easy to engage in such relationships but to give up is the most difficult part. Here we give you 10 tips that will help you break away and stop this Haram relationship for the sake of God.

punished for being in a haram relationship

Punished for Being in a Haram Relationship

In this counseling answer: “There is nothing to say that pastharam(sinful) behaviors will definitely have a negative impact on our future actions and relations, unless, of course, we have not authentically moved past these behaviors. There is no evidence of this that I am aware of in our teachings. I think the path you are …



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