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My Wife Doesn’t Have Any Desire for Sex - About Islam

My Wife Doesn’t Have Any Desire for Sex

In this counseling answer: • There may be some things going on with your wife personally, with the relationship, or the home situation that causes her to not feel desire. • Ask herhow you can change her daily routine to make them more manageable for her. • It is important as a couple that you …

We Love Each Other But Have Trouble Having Children

We Love Each Other But Have Trouble Having Children

In this counseling answer: • Stress, worry, depression can play a part in the ability to get an erection as can fatigue or feeling conflicted about one’s self. Try to get to the root of your husband’s problem. • Seek counseling.A good counselor will be able to help guide you through this and address any …

After 3 Months of Marriage, I’m Still Afraid of Having Sex

After 3 Months of Marriage, I’m Still Afraid of Having Sex

In this counseling answer: • Whether it is physical or psychological, the best thing you can do to start is to see a doctor. • When you are relaxed, the fear will reduce. • Don’t feel pressured. Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh sister, Firstly, just to reassure, many people experience a sense of fear …

I’ve Failed to Make My Husband Love Me

I’ve Failed to Make My Husband Love Me

In this counseling answer: • Do things you don’t normally do but do them as a team. • I encourage you to ask yourself an important question. Would you rather attempt counseling and see what happens, divorce him, or do nothing and stay in the same emotional state? • It is possible your husband doesn’t …

Husband Doesn’t Care About My Sexual Needs

Husband Doesn’t Care About My Sexual Needs

In this counseling answer: • Some men, due to ego or fear of not performing well, will take it as an insult and get angry. Others will be excited and intrigued to learn how to please their wives. •In marriage, communication is very important, as well as having an openness to learn about one’s spouse. …

My Wife Doesn’t Take Care of Herself; I Feel Disgusted - About Islam

My Wife Doesn’t Take Care of Herself; I Feel Disgusted

In this counseling answer: • After some time in a marriage, it is common for things to slip and change from where they were when a couple first married. • Understanding potential reasons for her current state will help you to appreciate why she behaves as she does and to assist her accordingly. • Consider …

Husband Neglects Me; I'm Depressed

Husband Neglects Me; I'm Depressed

In this counseling answer: • Emotional neglect is not allowed in Islam. • It is time that you talk to him about consulting a marriage counselor and/or taking marriage classes at an Islamic Center or Masjid. • If he agrees to go for marriage classes and/or marriage counseling alhamdulillah. If he does not agree to …

5 Different Kinds of Intimacy to Practice with Your Spouse

5 Different Kinds of Intimacy to Practice with Your Spouse

What do we mean by “different kinds of intimacy”? The word and even practice of “intimacy” is often mistaken for being purely sexual. Intimacy simply means “closeness” and is something we all crave. Here are several different ways you can practice intimacy with your partner, giving each other more love and comfort. They (your wives) …

How to Solve Intimacy Problems in a Marriage

How to Solve Intimacy Problems in Marriage

In this counseling answer: • I kindly suggest that you and your husband spend more time together exploring your intimacy on a more creative level. • It’s very important to assure him that you love him, that you’re attracted to him, that he makes you feel good in bed and that he turns you on. …

I Love My Wife but Need Less Sex

I Love My Wife but Need Less Sex

In this counseling answer: • I would recommend you speak to your primary care doctor and let him know that your arousal level is low to the extent that you only desire your wife once every two to three months and sometimes you aren’t able to sexually perform. • By not doing so you aren’t …



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