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He Wants a Wife Who Serves His Mom

He Wants a Wife Who Serves His Mom

In this counseling answer: • While there is nothing wrong with cooking, cleaning, and washing clothes, there is a problem as it appears that this is the main reason why he wants to marry her. • Evaluate the situation in relation to what Allah has designated marriage for. • Envision her future life with him and ask herself …

Husband Doesn’t Get Along with My Parents

Husband Doesn’t Get Along with My Parents

In this counseling answer: • You could do something that will stimulate conversation on passion shared by all. • There are more direct approaches such as seeking family counseling, either with your local imam or a local counseling service. Assalamu alaikum Wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh brother, Being torn between your obligation to your husband as well …

In-Laws Expect Me to Serve Them

In-Laws Expect Me to Serve Them

In this counseling answer: • In life, there is a compromise, especially when we are married. However, compromise should not have an end result of feelings such as yours. • Have a heart to heart talk with your mother-in-law. Take her out for lunch or somewhere quiet but enjoyable. Talk to her about how you …

In-Laws Force My Husband to Move to Their House

In-Laws Force My Husband to Move to Their House

In this counseling answer: “If your husband keeps on persuading his parents to come to the UAE, I am sure they will come. It is just matter of time. Old people can become like kids and a little stubborn, but when they realize that their son isn’t willing to move to India, they will agree to …

I Asked for Forgiveness, But My Husband Divorced Me

I Asked for Forgiveness, But My Husband Divorced Me

In this counseling answer: “Suppose you made mistakes during your little time in marriage, as humans, we all make mistakes. But when you sought forgiveness, your in-laws should have had the spirit of forgiving. It seemed as your mother-in-law was intent to have you divorced since the way she “threatened” you and your family about the …

I'm So Annoyed by Freqent & Long In-Law Visits

I'm So Annoyed by Freqent & Long In-Law Visits

In this counseling answer: “Being specific about what causes the problems for you will help you both communicate more effectively and work towards a solution. When you just complain about them visiting for long periods of time, it’s likely he’ll feel disrespected and his family dishonored instead of hearing the reality: you feel that it’s creating …

Husband Puts Parents Before Me

Husband Puts Parents Before Me

In this counseling answer: “When people say “failed marriage”, it comes with a dose of shame. A failed marriage doesn’t mean that you failed at all which is what a woman who has gone through a divorce or is considering divorce often feels.” As-Salamu ‘ Aleikom, Thank you for your question and reaching out for some …

Husband is Jealous of My Father

Husband is Jealous of My Father

In this counseling answer: There can be numerous reasons spouses develop these feelings of animosity. Identifying the underlying cause of this conflict can be useful in tackling the issue from the route and finding a middle ground to overcome these issues. Whilst difficult, this can be the key to ensure good relations with both parties …

4 Ways to Honor In-Laws and Make Marriage Work

Unlike your biological familial bonds that exist on the basis of the umbilical cord, you do not grow up cultivating and nurturing in-law relationships since childhood, having successfully reached a comfortable zone of closure and frankness with the passage of time…



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