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Parents Forced Me to Marry My Cousin

Parents Forced Me to Marry My Cousin

In this counseling answer: •You have to turn to Allah (swt) with remorse and sincerely repent to Him for any sins you might have committed before your marriage. • Talk to your parents further about this and go with them to consult and seek advice from a local Imam or religious scholar. • Before you …

He Just Married Me to Come to Europe

My Parents Said I Would Go to Hell If I Asked for Divorce

.In this counseling answer: • You should take time out to reflect on what you have experienced so that you can do your best to put this phase of your life behind you,in sha’ Allah. • You have to restore and repair your relationship with your parents. • You have to seek the advice of …

Middle-Eastern Marriages: Like a Lottery?

Middle-Eastern Marriages: Like a Lottery?

In this counseling answer: • In the Sunnah, we find that individuals do have a choice in marriage and should not be forced to marry anyone. • How do we get married: This, of course, all depends on the cultural context. • My advice is to honor the cultural customs so long as they do …

Forced Marriage Has Ruined My Life

Forced Marriage Has Ruined My Life

In this counseling answer: • You can respectfully decline a request from your parents or show them kindness and care without obeying them. •Marriage is ultimately left to your own personal choice. Parents can at best only offer you advice or suggestions. •There is nothing wrong with looking for personality compatibility and attraction in a …

A Man Wants to Marry Me, but I Don’t Love Him

A Man Wants to Marry Me, But I Don’t Love Him

Salam Alaikum, In this counseling video, you will learn: Marriage should not be a force. Take the middle ground: do not reject someone because you do not like him for the first meeting. Give him a chance and get to know him. Trust in Allah that He will give you the best. Watch more:

I Prayed Istikhara, but I’m Still Unsure About This Marriage

I Prayed Istikhara, but I’m Still Unsure About This Marriage

In this counseling answer: • I kindly suggest dear sister, that insha’Allah if this talk continues, you give them reminders from the Qur’an about their sinful ways regarding racism and backbiting. • When we make istikhara prayer, it is important that we don’t interject our own wants and desires into the prayer. • Please look …

He Seems to Be a Good Man, But I Dislike His Family

He Seems to Be a Good Man, But I Dislike His Family

In this counseling answer: • You can reject the proposal if your heart is not convinced about marrying that particular guy. • Wealth and a good status is not everything to look for in a marriage.Knowing the potential spouse’s personality, likes and dislikes are also quite important. • Be sure to set appropriate boundaries with …

My Parents Reject Every Proposal; I Feel Suicidal

My Parents Reject Every Proposal; I Feel Suicidal

In this counseling answer: • Ensure his practice of Islam aligns with your personal values as a Muslim. • Determine if you will stay with him or leave. • Sit down with your parents and speak very honestly. • Encourage your parents to have a sit down with him and his family. • Make lots …

My Cousin Loves Me, but I Can’t Marry Him

My Cousin Loves Me, but I Can’t Marry Him

In this counseling answer: • It is important that you marry someone you would like to marry.In shaa’ Allah,please consider calling off the marriage and speak with your parents about these facts in a respectful way. • Speak with your parents, set your intentions, and makeduaa’to Allah for direction and guidance. • If your family …

I Was Forced Into This Marriage; I Hate My Husband

I Was Forced Into This Marriage; I Hate My Husband

Salam Alaikum, In this counseling video, you will learn: You can find hadeeth about sahaabah divorcing each other. So, it might be an option for you if you feel there is no joy or happiness in your marriage that is worth fighting for at harder times. Learn more about each other; do something that is …



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