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My Husband is Unfaithful. We Have a Son: Shall I Divorce?

My Husband is Unfaithful. We Have a Son: Shall I Divorce?

In this counseling answer: • Your children need a healthy family, which does not necessarily mean having their parents together. • Have a clear sense of reality. Although divorce is not an encouraging option, it is allowed, especially if there are abuse, infidelity and effort to make things work but they don’t. • Seek couple …

Husband Neither Fixes Our Marriage nor Divorces Me

Husband Neither Fixes Our Marriage nor Divorces Me

In this counseling answer: • Marriage was created to be a relationship of mercy, love, safety, and comfort. It is not a place for abuse and neglect. • It is time that your husband told the truth about his life and his intentions with you, his wife. • Consult with a lawyer as well as …

I Was Too Young; I Cheated on My Husband

I Was Too Young; I Cheated on My Husband

Salam Alaikum, In this question, you will learn: Trust Allah that as you sincerely repented, He has forgiven you. So, forgive yourself as well. It is only Satan who whispers you such thoughts that Allah is not going to forgive you. Avoid anything that might lead you to commit this haram act again. Avoid any …

Husband is Pious, but Lives with His Mistress

Husband is Pious, but Lives with His Mistress

In this counseling answer: • Remember, if one’s Islam does not make them a better human being (humanistic-spiritualty), then the external religious acts should not be a standard of valuing a person. • You should question the nature of your husband and not be fooled by religious external acts. • Your case needs serious marriage …

Husband Thinks It’s OK to Watch Porn

Husband Thinks It's OK to Watch Porn

In this counseling answer: • You can begin with indirect encouragement on the path of Islam in a way that he will desire to change his behavior by himself. •Encourage him to get closer to Allah by inviting him to join you in salah, reading Quran together or fasting. •An alternative approach is to ask …

My Husband Neglects Me but Doesn’t Divorce Me

My Husband Neglects Me but Doesn’t Divorce Me

In this counseling answer: • I would kindly suggest trying to save the marriage first.Seek out marriage counseling. • It is your right as a woman and as a Muslim to seek a divorce if you have grounds, and yes you do have grounds. • I would start initiating a plan quietly (with a counselor …

He's Been to Jail, Taken Drugs & Cheated. Should I Divorce Him?

He's Been to Jail, Taken Drugs & Cheated. Should I Divorce Him?

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling video, you will learn: • It is you who needs to create a vision for your future and define what do you want. • You need to have new rules and boundaries such as complete transparency. • Do not have expectations that are going to crush you. Watch more:

Affair After Affair; I’m not Attracted to My Husband

Affair After Affair; I'm not Attracted to My Husband

In this counseling answer: • You say he is obese so maybe you could make exercise an activity that you both engage in together.You might like to sign up to the gym together. • Find a beautiful place to go for a walk and make it part of a routine.Seeing beautiful scenery together will help …

He Loves Me or Takes Advantage of My Vulnerability?

Does He Love Me or He Just Takes Advantage of My Vulnerability?

In this counseling answer: • These proposals/marriage scams happen all the time to unsuspecting women who may be new to Islam, in a vulnerable situation, or otherwise too trusting of a man just because he says he is Muslim. You are not the only one. • My advice dear sister is to cut him off …

Husband Accuses Me of Cheating Him

Husband Accuses Me of Cheating Him

In this counseling answer: • If you have family nearby, I would kindly suggest that you speak with your family about what’s been going on. • I kindly suggest that you try to save your marriage by engaging him in a thoughtful and loving conversation about how you would like to have an Islamic marriage, …



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