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I Cheated on My Husband; Do I Need to Seek a Divorce?

In this counseling answer: • Try not to disrupt things for your children. Allow them to continue to live life, as they would do normally; attend the school, doing their usual activities. • If your husband chooses not to forgive you and seek a divorce, then he is within his rights to do so. • Empathize for …

Dad Cheats on My Mom with Another Married Woman

In this counseling answer: • Take your time and don’t act out of anger. Consider all your options, the strengths and weaknesses, and potential consequences. Take this matter to Allah time and continue asking him for guidance. • Let your focus be in something other than what is going on at home. If you have …

Husband Said He Liked My Niqab but Not Me

Husband Said He Liked My Niqab but Not Me

In this counseling answer: • Please, sister, if you feel suicidal at any time, call the local suicidal hotline! • Instead of focusing entirely on pleasing him, focus on pleasing yourself. • Take time each day to remember your blessings, especially in terms of the talents that Allah has bestowed upon you, however small they …

A Married Man: I Feel Terrible for Having Sex with a Woman

A Married Man: I Feel Terrible for Having Sex with a Woman

In this counseling answer: •Inform your wife and family about the situation. •Both seek marriage counseling should she decide to go forward with her marriage to you. •You will have to decide how you will treat her fairly. Make arrangements concerning your upcoming child. •Repent to Allah, fix yourself and your family on a righteous …

Husband Just Used Me; I Feel Impure & Worthless

Husband Just Used Me; I Feel Impure & Worthless

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling answer: There is no person that would worth throwing your life for. Please, if you feel suicidal, call your local suicidal hotline! Abusive people just try covering up their frustration about themselves this way. Read about domestic violence. Seek help from a counselor. Talk to people who have been in …

Husband is Infidel & In Debt; Shall I Leave Him?

Husband is Infidel & In Debt; Shall I Leave Him?

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling answer: Involve someone else in this conflict. The best would be a person your husband respects. Someone needs to stop him doing such a haram act. You have the full right to do whatever you want; it depends on what you want to tolerate and not. The most important is …

My Husband is Fond of Having Girlfriends

My Husband is Fond of Having Girlfriends

In this counseling answer: • You have two options: you will get a divorce or he MUST change his behavior and treat you with love and respect. • It is important to understand each other’s needs. You should ask him why he is cheating and what you could do to make him feel satisfied with …

My Wife Only Wants Me for My Money

Unfaithful Wife - She Only Wants Me for My Money

In this counseling answer: You have a couple of choices: First: seek scholarly opinion over your financial obligations in light of your situation; that your wife has violated the sanctity of marriage. Second: Ask yourself who do you want to be in this test that Allah put you through? What’s the best thing you can do? *** …

I Feel Guilty for Cheating on My Wife

In this counseling answer: • Make it a part of your daily worship routine to repent to Allah (swt) and to seek His forgiveness for your sins. • Increase your voluntary prayers, your fasting, and giving in charity as well. • You have to ask yourself whether you are still committed to your wife and …

Brother-in-law seduced me

Brother-in-Law Seduced Me; My Husband Found It Out

In this counseling answer: • None of you acted with self-respect, and it is not right to blame it on your sister-in-law because still, the choice was yours. • Always remember that honesty and truth are the valued virtues in Islam and that deeds are according to intentions. Remember that Allah (SWT) knows the truth whether you …



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