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I Like a Non-Practicing Muslim: Shall I Marry Her?

I Like a Non-Practicing Muslim: Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • What are the qualities that you love about her? List them on a piece of paper. •Clearly talk to her and show your interest (while involving your and her parents). •Inshallah, you will be able to help her practice the religion in a more efficient way. Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam, Your …

I Can’t Live with the Shame of My Past

I Can’t Live with the Shame of My Past

In this counseling answer: • Instead of blaming the girl for getting you used to a physical relationship, you need to understand that it was your shortcoming in this aspect. • If you do not repeat these sins and continue to seek forgiveness, He (swt) will surely forgive you and help you in your journey …

We Sacrificed Our Love for The Sake of Parents

We Sacrificed Our Love for The Sake of Parents

In this counseling answer: • Since the girl is now married,you should not contact her again. • Accept the situation by understanding the underlying idea that whatever happened was Allah’s (swt) will. • Go for a vacation.Do things that you enjoy. Wa ‘Aleikum Salam, It is unfortunate that you and this girl were unable to …

Between Father & My Career: How to Choose?

Between Father & My Career: How to Choose?

In this counseling answer: • I would advise you to scrutinize the situation again.Compare and contrast the two places. List down your set of priorities and see which place offers you the best. • Sit with your father to discuss the issue. • Let your father know that his opinions matter. • Remember, it is …

Manager Forces Me To Commit Haraam

Manager Forces Me To Commit Haraam

In this counseling answer: “Sometimes instead of depending on an excuse or a reason, you can handle things diplomatically and diligently. Make your point and see what treatment you receive. Also, come up with alternative options when asked to do activities that are impermissible.” Salam ‘Aleikom, Thank you for writing to us. Earning a lawful …

My Parents' Insults Hurt Me

My Parents' Insults Hurt Me

In this counseling answer: “As far as the way your parents treat you, there must be a reason for it.Talk to them. I know you have done that before, but there isn’t any harm in doing it again.Maybe they are going through a big dilemma or maybe they have some relationship issues. Maybe they are …

We Want to Get Married; How to Approach My Parents?

We Want to Get Married; How to Approach My Parents?

Dear sister, Adolescence and young adulthood is a period marked with attraction towards the opposite sex. Therefore, being in touch with this guy has made you attracted to this guy. In this case, it is certainly better to go for a legal, halal relationship in the form of marriage as it is said in the …

I Discovered My Wife Was Not a Virgin

I Discovered My Wife Was Not a Virgin

In this counseling answer: • Bleeding is caused by the tear in hymen which is often broken before sex due to incidents such as serious injuries, falls, and accidents, or simply because of strenuous activities. Therefore, you cannot judge the virginity of your spouse on the basis of this. • Maybe, it is your treatment …

I Feel Ashamed of My Uneducated Fiancé

I Feel Ashamed of My Uneducated Fiancé

In this counseling answer: • Do you really need a highly qualified partner despite the excellent character he might possess? • Stop comparing your life with others because it will bring a fall. • You need to decide who you want in life. Dear sister, Love and attraction have great depth, and the love of …

She Loves Me, but Doesn't Want to Leave Her Country

She Loves Me, but Doesn't Want to Leave Her Country

In this counseling answer: • Communication is the key to everything. So, start an honest conversation with her about this issue. • Try your best to make her feel comfortable. • You might want to opt for a third place to live together. Dear brother, All relationships survive with the blessings of Allah (swt), so …



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