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How to Boost My Child's Self Confidence? - About Islam

How to Boost My Child's Self Confidence?

In this counseling answer: •You can help him develop his confidence by understanding who he is, what he feels and respecting that person who he is, and who he hopes to be. •Help him to understand his strengths and weaknesses and to know that to fail in a task (as we all do) is a …

How to Handle the Pain of Unrequited Love

How to Handle the Pain of Unrequited Love

In this counseling answer: • I ask that you write in your journal daily, noting your feelings, thoughts, and wishes. • I also want you toinsha’ Allahmakes a list of all your positive traits, qualities, and aspirations. • I want you to make another list of your blessings. Read them daily. • I highly recommend …

How to Deal With My Rude Step-daughters?!

How to Deal With My Rude Step-daughters?!

In this counseling answer: •It will take time and patience, but you can slowly develop a very rewarding relationship with theminsha’Allahas well as be a positive influence in their lives. •Likewise, your husband should be seeking to build a relationship with your son. •I would kindly suggest taking them to theMasjid, praying with them as …

Withdrawn Daughter

Our Jokes Made My Daughter Withdrawn!

In this counseling answer: •Go to your daughter (along with your husband) and apologize to her for saying anything mean, making fun of her and comparing her to her sister. •Please do assure her that you love her just the way she is, that she is a worthy, beautiful, and intelligent young lady, and that …

I Feel Bad Turning His Proposal Down

I Feel Bad Turning His Proposal Down

In this counseling answer: • You did say no, so I would kindly suggest that you move on and stop looking for him online. • As long as you kindly refused his proposal in an Islamic way, the outcome, or the way he chooses to feel about it or act afterward, is not your responsibility. …

Disobedient Daughter

How to Deal with My Disobedient Daughter?

In this counseling answer: •You may also want to explain to her that as a young adult now, she has increased responsibilities for her actions. •In discussing her swearing and disrespect, you may want to ask her if she speaks to her friends in such a manner as well as remind her of her Islamic …

praying

My Kids Dislike Praying,They Do it Only to Obey Us!

In this counseling answer: •Find out what it is about makingsalahthat they don’t like and discuss these points with them with the hopes of nullifying the dislikeinsha’Allah. I would continue to have them pray with you sister for you are building up good habits within them. While right now they do not like praying, you …

School Is not Abiding by Islamic Rules - About Islam

School Is not Abiding by Islamic Rules

In this counselinganswer: •By exposing your son to various holidays you are preparing him to deal effectively with different groups of people in the world with different belief systems, while maintaining his Islamic identity and belief system. •Continue to build a solid Islamic foundation at home, keep the lines of communication open and ask him …

Survived an Abusive Marriage, But Can't Remarry

Survived an Abusive Marriage, But Can't Remarry

In this counseling answer: • I would highly suggest sister thatin sha’ Allahyou find a therapist in your area and seek counseling. • I would also kindly suggest that you try to get out and do fun and social things with sisters. • Draw closer to Allah (swt) by praying, makingdu’aa’,reading Qur’an, and doingdhkir. As-Salamu …

How to Deal with a Narcissistic Sister?

How to Deal with a Narcissistic Sister?

In this counseling answer: • I suggest, in sha’ Allah, that you seek advice and recommendations from your therapist about how to cope with the situation. • There may be support groups in your area for siblings living with narcissistic family members. • I encourage you to learn about the disorder which will give you …



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