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Parents Disapprove of Marriage

My Parents Disapprove of Marriage, What to Do?

In this counseling answer: •I would kindly suggest brother, that if you and the girl desire to marry that you do so. •I would respectfully and kindly sit with your parents and inform them of your decision. •Use the Qur’an to illustrate how we are to chose our mates. As-salamu alaykum brother, Thank you for …

Having kids

Irritated and Jealous of Parents Having Kids

In this counseling answer: •Kindly suggest that whenever you have bad thoughts about others or feel like saying something negative, imagine a big red stop sign. •Count to 10, do some dhkir and regather your thoughts. Then say something nice. Even if you still feel irritable or jealous, say something nice. Insha’Allah if you do …

naked around children

When Should Parents Stop Being Naked Around Children?

In this counseling answer: •Once however, children begin to develop an awareness of self and others such as a child wanting to dress in private, or if a child begins to look at the sexual organs of his mother then it is perhaps time to keep oneself covered. •Try to find a balance so that …

Fear of Marriage: I Am Not Good Enough for Anyone

Fear of Marriage: I Am Not Good Enough for Anyone

In this counseling answer: • You may need to address your past abuse of being bullied. • Return to your counselor and discuss with him the fact that you still feel very much depressed and continue to suffer from low self-esteem. • Widen your Islamic social circle in order to meet a variety of Muslims. …

Stop getting angry

How to Stop Getting Angry at My Child?

In this counseling answer: •Recognition is the first step to stop getting angry. •The important thing now, is trying to get to know your mom again and work out your feelings of abandonment and pain. •Therapy would address your anger issues as they are most likely stemming from the trauma you experienced as a child, …

Surfing Porn Websites

I Caught My Son Surfing Porn Websites!

In this counseling answer: •I would kindly advise that if you can’t go to your husband for help with this issue and you have no other male figures to step in, then you should speak with him yourself. •Begin to address the topic by bringing up how proud of the fine young man he is …

My Toddler Biting His Nails, What to Do?

In this counseling answer: •I would kindly suggest that you keep an eye on your son and keep a journal on when he bites his nails, are there any events which precede his nail-biting as well as his general emotional state before, during and after the nail-biting. •Also notating the number of times a day …

Attention seeker, Teens,

My Daughter Is Attention Seeker, Please Advice!

In this counseling answer: •If your daughter is attention seeker so I would kindly suggest dear sister that you try to spend some extra time with her alone. Maybe take her to a favorite spot she enjoys or has one night a week wherein it is a special time just for the two of you. •Give her extra attention …

Mom

My Mom Disapproves The Way I Raise Up My kids

In this counseling answer: •I would kindly suggest that you start off by telling her you love her and that you do want to hear her concerns so you both can work out a mutually agreeable relationship for the sake of the children and family as a whole. •Kindly explain to your mom that you …

Control Anger towards Mother?

Anger Towards Mother, How to Control It?

In this counseling answer: •First, think before you speak. In the heat of the moment of anger towards mother, it’s easy to say something you’ll later regret. •Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything. •Begin to keep a journal and write down your feelings several times a day in order to …



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