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He Says He Loves Me, But I Wish to Run Away

He Says He Loves Me, But I Wish to Run Away

In this counseling answer: • All you can do is to distance yourself from the situation at your home mentally. • Have you done istikhara a few times? Maybe you should if you haven’t done it yet. • You should sit down and make a list of the things you like and dislike about him. • You …

I’m Afraid of Marriage Because I Feel Ugly

I’m Afraid of Marriage Because I Feel Ugly

In this counseling answer: • It is understandable that you would be nervous when thinking about marriage and the future. It is a normal reaction! However, take one thought at a time and analyze it. Start a journal. • Build up your self-esteem and start to develop confidence in who you are. As Salamu Alaykum sister, …

With Asperger’s Syndrome, I’m Scared to Get Married

With Asperger’s Syndrome, I’m Scared to Get Married

In this counseling answer: • Evaluate your career interests and direction. Seek out a career specialist if needed. Design a timeline to share with your fiancée. Talk to your therapist if you feel you need a different approach to therapy.  Invite your fiancée to a therapy session to educate her about borderline personality disorder as …

I'm Not Ready For Marriage, But My Parents Force Me

I'm Not Ready For Marriage, But My Parents Force Me

As-Salamu Aleikom, In this counseling answer, you will learn: Can parents force their child to get married? How can you decide when you are ready for a marriage? *** Watch more: Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the question. In no …

Marry Me, or Not? My Fiancée Hesitates

Marry Me, or Not? My Fiancée Hesitates

In this counseling answer: “Communicate with her in an understanding way and listen to what she has to say. Give her some space and let her know that you are there whenever she wants to talk to you. Do not make any decisions yet. Be patient and see for a few more weeks what happens.” As-Salaam ‘Aleikom …

I Think I'm a Lesbian

I Think I'm a Lesbian

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, It is common for both men and women in their early years of adulthood to experience some kind of uncertainty about their sexuality. It is easy to mistake feelings of love towards another female as those that are more intimate in nature. It is also easy to mistake others’ kindness towards …

Shall I Marry Someone with Genetic Disorder?

Shall I Marry Someone with Genetic Disorder?

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, Thank you for writing to us with your most heartfelt question. You have a very beautiful heart, may Allah (swt) reward your kindness and your ability to think of others and trust in Him. It is a difficult situation you are in. You indicated he is an amazing man and Muslim …

I'm Afraid She Will Reject Me

I'm Afraid She Will Reject Me

Answer: As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum, I am sorry that you are in so much pain! However, I am confused. What is the “haram” which you refer to? Is there anything haram in you proposing to her? Is there anything haram in her being in the medical field and you not? If you are not handsome (and who …



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