How can you be Allah’s favourite person? Those people who bear their calamities patiently get rewards without limit. They will get paradise. This is their reward because they are bearing the calamities with patience.
Your reward is for you to help out in their calamity. Those that give from their provisions, their food, even though they want it themselves, those that give to the destitute, orphans and those imprisoned by war without wishing for thanks in return, Allah promises them paradise and abodes of silk.
Allah warns those that do not want to spend in the sake of Allah in the Quran. Be Allah’s favourite person. Spend in the sake of Allah!