Will I be forgiven for emotionally abusing a person?

Q:

Salam, I’m a 22years old Girl and have been in a relationship with a guy we have repented and decided to get married in the near future inshaAllah

The problem is I believe I was a toxic partner and have caused this person alot of emotional pain and didn’t have a good intention going into a relationship with him in the beginning but now hamdoullah I do

My question is how can I repent from what I’ve done to him? Do I need to confess that I might have caused him pain intentionally and that I wasn’t that pure in my intentions with him at the beginning?

This person is extremely good to me and would be a great spouse but I had a lot of issues with myself that lead me to treat him badly i feel extremely bad god knows how much I regret it and I’m afraid of Allah’s punishment for what I caused him

A:

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu waRahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

You should not consider marrying him unless you have gone through a professional counselor to motivate you to change your behavior.

By taking the hasty step of marrying him without that, you end up having a miserable married life.

Almighty Allah Knows best.

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