Wa `alaykum as-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

 

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

 

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

 

I don’t see why she has to put up with this man who has no regard for her rights. He is not deserving of her. She is justified in seeking a divorce from him.

 

If what you allege him is to be true she is left to choose between him and her Creator, in which case the only choice left to a believer is to obey the Creator. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “One owes no obedience to a creature in disobedience to the Creator.” (At-Tabarani)

 

Allah Almighty knows best.