Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuh

 

She should not have boys as best friends, especially during these years when hormones are raging. That is not to say that she will have  any ill intentions with these boys,  or that she can’t be trusted, but unfortunately Shaytaan like s to take advantages of situations where males and females are together, encouraging them to do things that are seemingly innocent at first.

 

She may say that she doesn’t spend any time alone with them so no harm is done, which certainly is better than being alone with them, but it is so easy for one innocent thing to lead to something far more serious.

 

Alhamdulilah, it seems she has lots of good girl friends anyway so hopefully it won’t be too difficult for her to back away from the boys as she has good friendships elsewhere.

 

Talking to her about it gently, rather than being overpowering and demanding, will lead to her being more receptive of your request and more likely to obey. Being kind about it and explaining why you are saying what you are will let her know that you are there to support her and saying it for her own good in both this life and the next.

 

May Allah reward your concern for your daughter and guide you both aright