Wa `alaykum as-salamu wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you for your good question.

I pray to Allah Almighty to bless your marriage, ameen.

In fact, the girl, per Islamic law, has the final say about her marriage as long as she is of the marriage age and the marriage contract meets the legal conditions.

It is my advice for the girl to spare no efforts to maintain good relationship with her parents and get them share such a blessed, happy occasion with her. Their presence in her wedding is very significant.

Moreover, I do advise you to visit a local imam for help and counseling; he may contact the girl’s parents and bring the family members closer.

May Allah accept your and our good deeds, ameen.

Allah Almighty knows best.