Wa `alaykum as-salamu wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh

 

In the Name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the Mercy-Giving.

 

All praise is due to Allah. Peace and blessings be upon His Messenger Muhammad.

 

A woman who believes in a prophet after Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) is not a Muslim and is not lawful for Muslim men to marry. Ahmadi sect has been declared by scholars to be a non-Muslim sect and thus it not lawful to marry their women.

 

Alhamdulillah, you know that. But, unfortunately, you are under the illusion that this woman is the only one suitable for you. Let me just remind you of this Quranic verse that typically suits your case.

It reads, “And you shall not marry polytheistic women until they believe. For a believing bondwoman is most surely better than an polytheistic woman- even if she should please you.Nor shall you marry [your believing women to] polytheistic men until they believe. For a believing bondman is most surely better than a polytheistic woman- even if he should please you. These call to the Fire [of Hell], while God calls to the Garden [of Paradise], and to forgiveness, by His permission.” (Al-Baqarah 2:221)

 

Brother, you need to repent to Allah SWT and have trust in and reliance on Him. Pray to Him to grant you success in this world and in the Hereafter and ask Him to grant you a pious wife that helps you please your Lord and takes your hand to go together to His Paradise.

 

Allah Almighty knows best.