Wa `alaykum as-salamu wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

 

I would ask you if you had a sister who is 16, would you allow her to communicate with another man the way you are doing? I hope and expect not.

 

You are also only 19 and still studying and you need to find a job and maintain work.

 

The prophet (peace be upon him) said: One who is ready to establish a family let him act on it.” That means mainly financially because you are responsible to care for your wife and kids.

 

I say, quit this relationship and wait until you have a job and income and a place to call home to live in and then ask for her hand. If that takes 2 or 3 years both of you will be mature and more ready.

 

Almighty Allah knows best.