Wa alaykum assalamu warahmatullah wabarakatuh

 

In the Name of Allah, the All Merciful, the Mercy-Giving

 

All praise is due to Allah. Peace and blessings be upon His Messenger Muhammad.

 

Religious obligations such as Salah (Prayer), Zakah (charity), Hajj, Fasting, etc., do not require permission from anybody. A Muslim has to fulfill such an obligation and may not obey anyone in disobedience of Allah SWT. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said “No obedience is due for any created being in disobedience to the Creator.”

 

So, if a woman has fulfilled the conditions necessary for obligatory Hajj, she has to perform it.

 

Still, however, a woman should approach her husband or father gently and kindly showing love and respect to them and try to persuade them that she does so in obedience to Allah SWT whose commands and obligations may not be contravened. 

 

Allah Almighty knows best.