Wa `alaykum as-salamu wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

 

I am not sure where do you live and what did you mean by arranged marriage and are you already married or not? If it was a forced marriage on you without your consent, then you have the right to revoke it with a judge. If it was just the social method used by parents to help find spouses to their sons and daughters with their mature consent, it should be fine.

 

A righteous husband should not prevent his wife from visiting parents, friends, seeking knowledge etc. In many cases, these matters should be taught to men and educated about basic principles in Islam.

 

As to work, it is in many cases if wives go to work and neglect their duty to care for house or kids, then the husband can ask his wife to focus on the priority; Family first.

 

Maybe if you talk to your husband and have mutual love and respect to each other I hope many of these issues will be solved insha Allah.

 

Almighty Allah knows best.