Wa `alaykum as-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

 

I assume you are not talking about a secret marriage.  Mind you there is no room for a secret marriage in Islam.

 

Marriage, to be valid, must fulfill certain pre-requisites including publicizing through the presence of witnesses, guardian, and documentation, etc.

 

If you are married, as per the necessary conditions, then you have a right to insist that you live with your husband. I don’t know why he is refusing to do that.

 

Perhaps, you should speak to the leaders of your community to convince him to change his mind and fulfill his spousal responsibilities towards you.

 

Almighty Allah knows best.