There is no room in Islam for secret marriage. Marriage in order to be valid should comply with certain requirements such as the following:

The minimum conditions for the validity of nikah are the followin:

1- The consent of the guardian of the woman

2- presence of witnesses

3- offering and acceptance

4- and mahr (dower).

Once the above conditions have been fulfilled, the marriage will be deemed as valid; but if these conditions are not fulfilled, then it will be considered as being null and void.

 

As far as the consent of guardian is concerned, it can only be dispensed with if the guardian is simply refusing to give consent for considerations other than Islamic, in which case the judge can authorize the marriage after having followed the due process. If, on the other hand, such is not the case and no attempt was made to ascertain the consent of the guardian, then such a marriage would be considered invalid and, therefore, unacceptable in Islam. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “There is no (valid) marriage without a guardian and two reliable witnesses.”

 

By stipulating the above-mentioned conditions for the validity of marriage, Islam insists that a marriage should remain distinct from other loose and immoral lifestyles such as fornication and illicit affairs. Hence, the Prophet insisted on making marriages public.”

If your marriage has been solemnized as mentioned above, then he should fulfil his spousal duties towards you as best as he can.

If, however, he is unable to do so, then he is allowed to divorce you.

Almighty Allah knows best.