The answer of your question is directly given in the following verses of the Quran: “And the retribution for an evil act is an evil one like it, but whoever pardons and makes reconciliation – his reward is [due] from Allah. Indeed, He does not like wrongdoers. And whoever avenges himself after having been wronged – those have not upon them any cause [for blame]. The cause is only against the ones who wrong the people and tyrannize upon the earth without right. Those will have a painful punishment. And whoever is patient and forgives – indeed, that is of the matters [requiring] determination.” (Ash-Shura 42:40-43)

 

As a Muslim, you are highly recommended to do the most ideal choice in your life. Allah says what means, “Who listen to speech and follow the best of it. Those are the ones Allah has guided, and those are people of understanding.” (Az-Zumar 39:18)

 

Though you are not blamed to avenge yourself after being wronged, you are better rewarded if you pardon and control your anger. Allah described the His true servants by saying, “Who spend [in the cause of Allah] during ease and hardship and who restrain anger and who pardon the people – and Allah loves the doers of good.” (Aal `Imran 3:134)

 

Allah knows best.