If your husband is forced to leave, then I would advise you to agree to his wishes to move with him. Perhaps he is doing so to please his parents and to be able to serve them if needed.
You should pray to Allah to give you peace of mind and help you cope with the challenges you are facing. Remember such challenges are part of life; for as Allah says, after hardship comes ease. So, you should agree to go with your husband and pray to Allah to bring you comfort and give you strength to face the challenges. Allah says: ‘Whoever is conscious of God, God gives him a way out.” (Qur’an 65:2). “And whoever is conscious of God, God will give him ease in his concern.” (Qur’an 65: 4).