Wa-alaykum as-salamu wa-rahmatullah wa-barakatuh
In the Name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the Mercy-Giving
All praise is due to Allah. Peace and blessings be upon His Messenger Muhammad.
These sound very reasonable and reveal a balanced and fair mind. Rare are women who may think this way. Polygamy has been made available to achieve great purposes and solve many social problems.
1) It is the alternative of adultery that has spread in other communities that disallow polygamy as men there look for pleasure outside marriage.
2) It helps decrease the number of unmarried women in the society with all the problems this increasing number causes.
3) It is the solution when a man comes to hate his first wife but does not want to divorce her and break the family.
May Allah bless and reward you and grant you a good, religious husband.
Almighty Allah knows best.
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