Your husband is unfair in objecting to your father’s gesture of good will.

 

Your father is helping his brother while trying to gift you with something. Allah will reward him for his intention. By accepting his gift and thanking him, you also stand to gain blessings and rewards.

 

How can it be humiliating to you or him or anyone else for that matter?

 

The least we could do it encourage others to do good if we are not able to do it ourselves.

The Prophet (peace be upon him): “ If anyone helps someone do good deeds, he will also gain similar rewards as the one who does it.”

 

In conclusion, you should thank your father for his gift and appreciate his intention to help his brother.

 

Almighty Allah knows best.