Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

 

If you think that this man is lying to you, then it is not a good sign. If you were my daughter, I would not advise you to pursue this matter any further. Truthfulness is one of the essential traits of a believer, and the opposite is the trait of a hypocrite.

 

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “Be truthful, for truthfulness leads to virtue and virtue leads the way to paradise; and shun lying for lying leads to sins and sins leads the way to hell-fire. And a person continues to lie until his name is registered as a liar in his register with Allah.”

 

Therefore, I would advise you to consider the issue carefully before rushing to marry such a person.

 

Almighty Allah knows best.