Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

 

This is completely wrong. Marriage is a solemn contract between two spouses to permit them to build a family and fulfill their instinctive desires. It is based on the concept of full equality between husband and wife with the leadership and responsibility given to man.

 

A contract may be conducted without specifying a certain amount as a dowry but later after the consummation of marriage, a woman deserves mahr based on the gifts given to those similar to her in status and education.

 

Scholars maintained that dowry is given to elevate the status of woman and distinguish it from adultery and fornication. It is given to show how man can sacrifice and pay for just connecting himself to her.

 

Allah Almighty knows best.