Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

 

It is your right to apply for people or not as you are not obligated. If you want to do it out of good will and care for your husband and family it is your decision.

On the other hand, family can be welcomed for a reasonable period of time as visiting. It is your right to have your own privacy with your kids and husband.

I suggest you talk to your husband and come with an understanding of rights and responsibilities that which you can tolerate and that which you cannot.

 

Almighty Allah knows best.